Why is it so difficult for men to be truthful about what they really want out of a relationship? I mean, if he doesn't want you why can't he just come out and say it!!! Why do some men keep women hanging on for long periods of time, giving them hope that things will get better?!!? And all the while they're out cheating and doing as they please!!!! How can you get a man to just say what he really wants from you!!! Or to admit that he doesn't want you?!?
2007-04-08 17:53:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't like seeing girls get hurt, and we'll delay it as long as possible because it isn't pretty when it happens, I am sort of in the same situation right now. I'm not sure if I still love my g/f, but at the same time, I don't want to jump to conclusions, I've done that before, and still regret it today, so that's about how it goes, not much else to say to explain it, I hope you understand.
2007-04-08 17:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If maturity is what you are looking for...
1. Every single thing you have listed up there apply to women too.
2. You can't ask about men in general when it's only about your man.
3. You definitely have more than ONE question.
4. Every finger that you point out, there's probably 10 more fingers pointing back at you.
2007-04-08 17:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by ET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some breathing room and don't ask him everyday. It gets old and gets irritating. Just give him time to snap out of his little world. He must be worried about something or he just might be scared to be really committed. Give him a week and then ask him what is important to him at the moment. Don't be so pushy just calmly ask him and you might get his response you want. If you know he is cheating on you come on now leave him why go through that type of relationship. Haven't you heard there's a lot of fish out in the sea or in your case there's plenty of sausage out there.
2007-04-08 18:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by want_to_marry_overseas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men don't want to hurt a woman, since woman are more sensitive, so by keeping women hanging on they thing they are saving them from getting hurt which is normally not the case.
2007-04-08 18:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by bored to death 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm . . . don't generalize. Just because you date men like that doesn't mean that we're all that way. If I thought all women were like the women I've had bad experiences with, I'd sooner become a monk than continue dating. The guys you've been seeing may have been scum, but you didn't have to continue seeing them. Please excuse me if I seem cynical here . . . I've known women to date criminals and chumps instead of nice guys, so I'm a little biased. Good night!
2007-04-08 18:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because things change every day.. the way we treat oneanother an the offers from other people.. everyone is so worried about having a relationship the friendship gets forgotten about. without that you r just wasting eachothers time..
2007-04-08 18:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by dirtyred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because its easier to be untruthful about how one feels as long as the other party is happy.
Perhaps you should reanalyze your choice in men rather then pointing your finger.
2007-04-08 17:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why people ask these kind of questions here. You're not looking for information, you're just venting your personal problems.
2007-04-08 17:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Underground Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find a woman that knows what she wants you will find the man, with her
2007-04-08 17:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very general question. I don't have this problem.
2007-04-08 17:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋