ok well this guy i've know sence like the second grade where really good friends. then we kinda stop talking to each other till i found him on myspace. well like ive talked to him there and then my little brother called to tell him that i liked him. well ever sence then we havent talked to much. and well i really like him, like my friend has told me its no longer a crush i have its love. i have no idea to tell him him that i like him or to c if he likes me. so what do i do?
2007-04-08 17:47:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there. Well, there are two different methods you can use - the direct or the indirect approach. With the direct approach, you can just tell him thet you're really attracted to him, and see where it goes from there.
The indirect approach is the one favoured by most women; it's also known as seduction! It is using your feminine wiles to get him to notice you and become attracted to you, without you having to actually say anything to him directly.
The initial phase of seduction, flirting, is a means of testing each other out a bit. It's non-commital - a way of paying a bit of special attention to a guy, and seeing if he returns it. Things like making eye contact, getting closer into his personal space, and putting effort into your apprearance to attract his attention.
Older guys are generally better at picking up the subtle signals of flirting than younger guys and acting on them though. If this boy is in his teens, he might not pick up on those signals right away or might be too confused or shy to actually act on them. However, it might give you some clues as to whether he's interested in you, so that you can try a more direct approach yourself.
As for whether or not it's a crush, or it's love... well, a crush is more of an infatuation, based on attraction and desire; whereas love is more of a slow-burning, long-lasting bond, that's based more on trust and devotion. You decide for yourself what it is you feel, but in general, the less you know someone, the less likely it is that you truly love them.
2007-04-08 18:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Oracle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oki m a guy theres two ways that you could go about this situation.
1) you can try to make him jealous by getting a male friend in on it and becoming all comfortable with. but this may have consequences and may backfire on you.
2)fess up to him and tell him how you realy feel.
he might feel the same way and your brother wrecked it for you because he dont want toask you if you like him and then you say no and make a fool of him.
i stongly suggest option number 2
2007-04-08 17:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe talking to him about it will be the best option. How worse can it get? Just take the first step and break the ice. Start talking and see how it goes.
Good Luck!!!
2007-04-08 18:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should do is check him out, see what his lifestyle is like. Try to see how he reacts to certain stressors, like a lousy waiter, or another's bad driving. Another thing, observe where his eyes go, if he's checking out other babes while you are w/ him...dust him immediatly.
People change, it is only prudent to research this guy a bit. Remember; you are judged by the company you keep.
2007-04-08 17:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it. What is the worst that can happen. You guys are already friends. Just ask to go hang out, then ask to date. That usually works. Do it before you lose the guy. He might find someone else. Good luck
2007-04-08 17:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ri Etoshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll figure out if he likes you is to ask him so on myspace talk to him then just bring it up or like talk to him on the phone just dont be scared...
2007-04-08 17:51:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just let things flow. You should start off just like flirting with him and kinda make him wonder if you really do like him or not. Then, when you think that he's into u, i still don't think that you should tell him that you like him unless you know that he's like dying to ask you out but he's just too afraid that ull turn him down.
2007-04-08 17:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by maria b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not that many black pupils at my college the two and no person looks to care approximately absolutely everyone's dermis color. the only racist comments I ever pay attention are from the previous men that stay out in the rustic area of city. so which you would be able to easily attempt, probability is, he would be nice with you.
2016-10-02 09:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him how you feel. How will he ever know that you like him, without you telling him. You better let him know before he finds someone else. Good luck.
2007-04-08 17:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and get a crush on someone you actually know . . . unless you're like 11, he's not the same person he was when you knew him. Good night!
2007-04-08 17:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋