My sister and I have had a rough time in life... my mother was married twice.. im 20 and my little sister is 17 anway my mom and dad divorced and my mom married again.. my dad has always taken care of me my sisters dad left our mom within a year.. this has always been a problem of hers and because of this we dont see eye to eye on much but her boyfriend comes over to our house and if she walks out of the room he'll rub his private are and he'll say something perverted like "ride me" I usually get up and leave, but yesterday she callled and asked me to pick her and her bf up because his car was messed up...
I was suppose to take him home 1st but she wouldve been late for work.. so I ended up having to drop her off and ride alone with him.. the whole time he was like emma youre hot i like curvy brunettes.. i date blondes for fun.. I was like Scott you need to grow up.. he was like emma i love you
2007-04-08 17:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by sweetee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He really creeps me out I just dont think I can cope any longer...
I know if I tell my sister she'll say I dont like him and I dont want her to be happy..
I dont like him, no but he is sooo rude and perverted its sad..
what can i say to her?
thanks!
2007-04-08 17:28:05 · update #1
well, you should tell your sister, but i can tell you from personal experience it will cause a fight, but an even better idea, is get a tape recorder and hide it, let him slip and get it recorded and play it back. i had a similar kinda deal happen with my brother's ex...only i caught her with our cousin...when i told him it turned into a fist fight...but in the end he did catch her and was big enough to come to me and apologize, but with this guy, your sister is better off being rid of him, and if you can facilitate getting rid of him, go for it.
2007-04-08 17:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try recording him to play it back for your sister if she doesn't believe you. I believe you need to say something before she gets an STD or AIDS as this guy has no morals and is a creep and wouldn't think twice about having sex with someone who gave even a halfway offer. Good luck!
2007-04-08 17:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind but eventually she will get what's about to really p her off, but you must tell her. Just be simple and factual without opinion or judgement and watch the truth set you free. And your dear sister. Works everytime. Ghheeesh, what a JERK.
2007-04-08 17:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really really close to my younger sister too and can imagine this scenario. Tell that guy to back the f*ck off!! You guys have had enough problems and troubles throughout your life! DON'T ADD THIS GUY TO THE LIST!!
2007-04-08 17:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her exactly what he said andn tell her that he is not worth it. If that doesn't work then tell that guy to get away from your sister and leave cuz he's just screwing things up!!
2007-04-08 17:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand all phones re with recording functions, try recording his conversation with you and play it to your sis.Nothing can be pr oven without valid evidence especially heart affairs!
2007-04-08 17:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess you need to tell her!
next time ur alone with him you need to bring a tape recorder and record evrything he says then show ur sister
what a jerk off!
2007-04-08 17:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem will only worsen if you leave it alone... Do what you think is best
2007-04-08 17:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by M to the ATT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her everything you told us....
2007-04-08 17:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by The Taste U can See 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋