i dont know what happening im 11 and im just afraid of life i know its weirds and please dont judge me but i am. its like i dont know i think im going crazy like sometimes i just cry for no reason sometimes i fake sick to my parents so im not alone i just dont know whats happening is something wrong with me should i tell my parents about this please help
2007-04-08 16:10:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Honey, there isnt anything wrong with you. Its normal to be afraid of what is unknown. Tell your parents you dont like to be alone, that you are afraid something might happen if you are alone and ask them to take you to someone you can talk to about it. Its not weird at all and dont let anyone tell you it is. It also doesnt help that you are eleven and not quite a teen but not really a child anymore either. It will get better and easier for you as you get older.
2007-04-08 16:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your parents how you are feeling. Let them know you don't want to be alone and you have fears. At 11, you really shouldn't be left alone anyway.
Your body is beginning to go through some changes, hormonal, which has an affect on your emotions. So, this could be part of it too.
Know that if you take smart precautions, you have nothing to fear. Do you believe in God? He loves you, you are one of His children. Ask Him for peace and to take away the fear. Ask youself this; is what I am afraid of is logical?
There are counselors at school your parents can take you to talk to, which may be a good idea if it continues.
2007-04-08 17:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have some kind of serious anxiety disorder. Social anxiety, or something , but it sounds like its making you pretty miserable. Maybe it runs in your family to have anxiety? Telling your parents is the first step in getting the help you need. Seeing a doctor that specializes in this would be helpful. I have a daughter about your age and I would do everything in my power for her to be able to enjoy life and feel happy. Do you eat healthy? Try cutting back on the sugar. Medication worked for me, but let that be your last resort. Many people with anxiety problems turn to alcohol and drugs, but it just makes your life worse, not better.
2007-04-08 18:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by luv2laf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them, and ask to see a doctor, so you can receive the proper treatment. Is there a counselor at school, or one of the more approachable teachers that you could ask if they could spare some time to talk with you about this?
2007-04-08 16:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are facing mild depression and it is normal around teen years. I think you are looking for attention from parents so you are faking sick. i think you should be honest to parents.
you are kid still now, your parents are the one who know you best. so go ahead and tell them how you are feeling and what is going on in your mind.
2007-04-08 16:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by vindiesl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
yes you should talk to your parents. you may have a illness. tell them how you feel. tell them about the fears you have and don't be afraid to express yourself to the fullest. you have to let them know how you feel or they will not be able to help you.
2007-04-08 16:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your parents. Then they could at least be there for you, even if it isn't serious. You also might want to talk to your doctor.
2007-04-08 16:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by cookie monster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parent yes... it sounds like puberty to me
2007-04-08 16:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kid!!!! your 11, now get over it!!!!! move on!!!!!
2007-04-08 16:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by who me? 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋