i like this guy, and i just figuered out recently that he like me. im in middle school and im really shy when it comes to actually telling guys how you feel about them. im not shy if we arent talking about that i could talk to him all day. but the bad thing is he is more shy than me. before he could barely even talk to me but now he is flirty and starts the conversations. he pokes me and throws things at me like paper and ect. well i know he is to shy to ask me out because he doesnt know i like him or i hope not any way. i was wondering how to show him or something to tell him how i feel about him because i think he is amzing. he is cute,sweet,nice hair,shy,did i mention cute.everything i want. i know im young and it may sound stupid but i really need help
thank you
2007-04-08 15:46:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just continue to hang out with him. build up a good friend/flirtatious relationship first before you go running into a committed relationship. He'll ask you out when he's ready!
2007-04-08 15:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by ilt_21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok life advice time.
always, always, always tell the truth to those you love
you'll always regret it if you don't.
now then.
tell him how you feel.
you, of course, are entitled to those feelings.
and while it is then in his court--- you've said it yourself that he's not likely to put the ball in yours to start.
not to wory, if he's diserving of you, it won't matter who asked.
and to be quite frank, all the guys I know would love it if a girl asked them out
toodles.
piece of advice number two:
don't leave a paper trail.
this is going to sound stupid, because it's rational,
but if it turns out laer that you two aren't going to be spending the rest of your lives togather, you don't want to give him, or anybody else ammunition to taunt you with.
so, when at all possible don't leave notes or write love letters.
...
ok if you insist:
use nice paper, and a nice pen. don't rip it out of a notebook.
make him/ buy him a card. put it in an envalope. SEAL the envelope. very important. wax seals are best--- for the following reason: few people these days know how to get past them without breaking them. it's rather ironic, personally... how something so low tech is a really good security device...
piece of advice number three.
don't tell all your friends.
gossip never helps. NEVER.
I often find out that I'm apperently dating several people at the same time, usually, none of the suspects are actually my girlfriend at the time. personally, I like it that way, nobody who doesn't need to know, knows, everybody who needs to know does. and usually, the only people who need to know are you, the other person, and your parents.
piece of advice number four
always tell your parents. they're married right?
so they must know what to do.. vaguely?
they're a great reasource for infomation animal vegitable and mineral--- and better yet on dating.
2007-04-08 15:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are young. And I'd suggest just foregoing telling him how you feel. Try being friends until you guys are really of an age to have responsible relations (not sexual). OMG...I sound like my mom...lol. But I do think you should save dating for highschool sweety. Good luck with whatever you decide...I remember what it's like to get butterflies and goosebumps.
2007-04-08 15:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mika H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That shy guy sounds exactly like me.
Inform one of his friends. A mutual friend would be the best way to go about it.
2007-04-08 15:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm i guess if he likes you and you like him you shouldn't have a problem. It doesn't matter that he's shy, all dudes are like that. Go ahead and tell him and there shouldn't be anything bad. Looks like you have a chemistry because you could talk to him ALL day. :)
2007-04-08 15:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by alexisonfire1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he likes you and you like him, so stick with your own flirty methods. You said he starts the conversations, so talk back and eventually, you need to build up the courage to start them, because once you start, you know he will continue it. :)
2007-04-08 15:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will figure out that you like him if he is ready. Keep up the good friendship cause you have plenty of time for all the serious stuff.
2007-04-08 15:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS IN 7TH GRADE LAST YEAR & IT WAS THIS BOY I LIKED I REALLY DIDNT TALK 2 HIM TILL ONE DAY I WROTE HIM A LETTER TELLING HIM HOW I FELT AND IN THE LETTER I ASKED HIM OUT TUNRNS OUT HE LIKED ME 2 SO WE STARTED GOIN OUT AND YEAH I KNOW IT WAS STUPID SO BUT HEY IT WORKED SO YEAH JUST TRY AT LEAST U KNOW U DID SOMETHING INSTEAD OF JUST SIT THERE AND LET HIM GO :) HOPE I HELPED
2007-04-08 18:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by SexyLoverGirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, im in high school. i've been where you are.if your not good at telling guys how you feel. get someone to do it for you. Do you like the guy. if you do get a good friend to tell him for you. trust me. it works
2007-04-08 15:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all i can recommend is something to distract your self from those thoughts. dont think about those guys just try to move on.
2016-05-20 04:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋