i like this guy, and i just figuered out recently that he like me. im in middle school and im really shy when it comes to actually telling guys how you feel about them. im not shy if we arent talking about that i could talk to him all day. but the bad thing is he is more shy than me. before he could barely even talk to me but now he is flirty and starts the conversations. he pokes me and throws things at me like paper and ect. well i know he is to shy to ask me out because he doesnt know i like him or i hope not any way. i was wondering how to show him or something to tell him how i feel about him because i think he is amzing. he is cute,sweet,nice hair,shy,did i mention cute.everything i want. i know im young and it may sound stupid but i really need help
thank you
2007-04-08 15:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont sound stupid at all. Look at it this way....he never told you he liked you and you figured out. Hopefully the kid is smart and will realize you like him also. Otherwise, wait because the right moment will come and you will just flat out tell him you like him. No rush. Things come in due time.
If you see he wont do a thing then email him casually and at the end write: -you are cute.
Good luck sweetie
2007-04-08 15:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh... I felt the same way in middle school. You will know what I'm talking about when you are older. any ways. You just have to say it. You must say it. If you really want it to go any where I think that is the best thing to do. Other than that. Just go with the flow. Don't blow everything out of proportion. the world is not going to end tommorrow, eventhough it may seem like it. Have fun, take it easy, you young, enjoy it!!
2007-04-08 22:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by jones f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your best friend? Maybe she/he could hook you up. Write a note to him. Works for a lot of ppl I know. But, i get it, your shy, and i cant think of anything that would not be in your comfort zone, I say, being shy isn't going to get you anywhere life...mine as well just go for it....sure you think your reputation might shater in a million pieces, but if you ask him privately, and he says no, who's gonna know?
2007-04-08 22:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do the same he does flirt back and since you're both really shy to talk about the subject. why don't you just get in the habit of writing letters back and forth and in one just let everything out like that he'll read it when your not around, and maybe that will give him courage
2007-04-08 22:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by pimpstress_956 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him back.. have a friend go up to him and tell him that you like him.. or write him a note....maybe you should start throwing things at him and smile at him when you do it.... eventually he will get the hint. good luck.
2007-04-08 22:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by xobrittanie91xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without explicitly saying it, make him know you like him - through gestures, actions etc. Remember, agressive behaviour drives away shy people.
2007-04-08 22:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Traveller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know him, if you feel the time is right to tell him you need to make sure you are in a less populated place and make sure it is a nice place. ok?
2007-04-08 22:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley Keeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww you sound so sweet!!!!! Just try your best to get a good conversation going. You really like him, so I know you'll be able to do it...Have fun, he sounds like a keeper!!!!!!
2007-04-08 22:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by ♥KP♥MH♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt and maybe go on a date to the movies or something. or go hang with him at his house. one of you is gonna have to stop being shy sooner or later...
2007-04-08 22:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Alyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is flirting with you already. Drop a hint. Be careful, you are way young.
2007-04-08 22:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋