Accept a girl that doesn't have the most beautiful body in the world?? I know that guys are different, but I really would like to know if there are some guys out there who would accept a girl that has cellulite, scars on the breasts (due to a breast reduction surgery) and some skin problem called "hyperpigmentation".....My skin is so freakin sensitive....
Please ONLY serious and mature answers!! Please don't make any rude comments!!! It is so hard to put yourself out there, being rejected is just too painful and it feels so bad!!! I really love a guy, but his sister told me that he is "vain"....I'm so scared of his rejection :(
Someone please help!!!!!
2007-04-08 14:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by ~~~~~!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't speak for every guy on the planet but I can say that if I love a woman, it's because she's a woman! By that i mean that she's the PERSON i've been searching for. Looks fade with time. When I'm 80 years old, sitting on the porch with my wife, I want her to be the same PERSON I married. I want her to be the funny, caring and loving person i fell in love with. Yes, I know that she will get wrinkled and grey but I'll still love her.
So to answer your question, if you find someone that loves YOU, all the phsysical imperfections you see will be perfection in his eyes. As long as you remain the same person he falls in love with you won't have to worry about anything.
2007-04-08 14:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Cliff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he rejects you because you had a breast reduction then he is not worth it.
There are many more fish in the pond, there IS one out there that does not care about scars or hyperpigmentation.
2007-04-09 06:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A vain guy loves himself most of all. Why torture yourself trying to live up to some ideal? There is a guy out there who will make you feel beautiful, not insecure. Be open to other real men, not a shallow vain man.
2007-04-08 21:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would stick to your sisters opinion if you and your sister are close. Sure there is someone out there for you. If it were me I would keep my guard up with this guy.. i'm sure you would agree with me but wouldn't you want to be interested in a guy who everyone you talk to says "Oh he is a really nice guy" other than "Man he is vain!!" I would pick the first response... good luck hun.
2007-04-08 21:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tara Bara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 outa 10 girls has cellulite... the others are either elite athletes or a blessed with a fast metablolism. The breast reduction thing shouldn't matter if the guy likes you and that sensative skin thing... well i'm not to sure coz i dunno how bad it is but it doesn't seem like a biggie to me.
2007-04-08 21:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he won't accept and love you for who you are, including what you look like, then screw him! you deserve someone who adores you as you are, because you are special. i know it sounds corny, but everyone has something special about them. don't change just for some guy. good luck love=)
2007-04-08 21:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fiona 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋