Okay so here's the situation. My bf and I dated for a little over a year. He was living with me. Well things weren't working out so I asked him to move out. We started dating again after a couple weeks. It's nice but I don't know if this is what I really want.
I love him, but at the same time I find myself wondering if there is something better out there. I am not a hot size 5 and I have 3 kids. It's very hard to find a good man who excepts my kids and me just like we are. Is that enough to keep this relationship going? How do I know if I should wait and hope better comes around? I do love him, but there are certain things that we don't have incommon that are big things in a relaitonship. Like goals, and he spends all his time on his computer instead of spending time with me- am I reading too much into this? Please help~
2007-04-08 13:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by smilesnwinks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can always tell when it's time to quit . If you both make up any excuse to leave ,if you fight more than you make love , if your just plain old unhappy.Better to move on than to try and fix something you can't.
2007-04-08 14:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the first date
2007-04-08 20:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your guy has a job, helps pay his share of the bills, gets along pretty well with the kids, isn't abusive or cheats on you, then I'd say you have a good guy.
If you are looking for some kind of fulfillment, look inwards first. Are you happy with your career, your income, etc? If not, then go back to school to give yourself and your kids a reason to pat you on the back.
As far as guys go-------they are a dime a dozen! You've got your losers, players, cheaters, alcoholics, unemployed lazy good for nothings--------and there are plenty of them out there just waiting for a good woman to come along and take them in.
You want to know what's available? Just look on line. Look at the dudes from Plenty of Fish, Yahoo Personals, American Singles, Match.com. That's what is out there.
2007-04-08 21:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With 3 kids that really changes everything I'm sorry but you can't be so picky or you will end up alone .I'm not saying take what you can get but if I were you I would weigh the pros&cons.
2007-04-08 21:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happier when you're not with him than you are when you are with him,,,,,,,,,it's time to give it up
2007-04-08 21:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋