I did something bad to my boyfriend and now he won't talk to me. Usually when we're going though a time like that he breaks the silence first but he's not talking to me this time. What should I do?
2007-04-08 13:16:44 · 17 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay I'm on the phone with him right now and he's not saying a word to me. I lied to him....
2007-04-08 13:32:02 · update #1
Say You're sorry. If you did something to upset him. YOU need to be the one to appologize.
2007-04-08 13:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by jesssikahhh_x3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you expect your boyfriend to make the first move when you admit that you were the one to do the wrong thing? Go to him and apologize. Then leave it up to him where you go from there.
If you continue to treat him badly, don't be surprised if he doesn't want to talk or be with you. A good relationship takes effort from both parties, so you can't always expect him to make the first move.
And another question. Would you have forgiven him if he did to you what you did to him?
2007-04-08 20:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that he is mad.. i hope you can work things out. yeah im usually the silence breaker too i can't stand to be mad at my bf. umm just try confronting him and the issue with a kind heart. I'm sure he will give in sooner or later, best wishes. : )
2007-04-08 20:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by avaughn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must have been bad. What did you do and why did you do it? Maybe you deserve it. Not only that, you said "usually" - this indicates you've done this before. Maybe he's tired of it.
2007-04-08 20:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by MajorTom © 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him cool off, maybe send him a message saying that you're sorry and that he can take as much time as he needs to talk to you. good luck
2007-04-08 20:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be the bigger one and start talking maybe he feels that he shouldn't apologize first all the time
2007-04-08 20:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by lizziemoffles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it bad enough to be unforgivable? If not just say you are sorry.
2007-04-08 20:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did. Maybe he's justified and you should apologize.
2007-04-08 20:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend how childish it is to play the "silent game".
If he's hurt by what you did he should be a man and talk about it.
2007-04-08 20:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
let him have his space then he will talk to you when hes ready and also say your srry when he starts tlkin to you again.
2007-04-08 20:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by His Grace Is Enough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋