I feel so bad do u think he will ever forgive me?
along time ago I was at a party and i seduced my friend toms girlfriend jill and her friend on a bed at the party,Tom invited me to the party and i made out and seduced his girlfriend, this is when i was in high school in grade 11, now i am 10 yearsold and in college yesterday i had a dream that i was in bed with someguys girlfriend and the guy was crying, do u think my dream was trying to tell me something, that maybe i am sorry how do i tell tom i am sorry for ruinening his relationship with his former gf I think he really loved her
Do u think god is trying to tell me something by giving me a sign in my dream
2007-04-08 11:41:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
sorry i ment 20 years old typo on 10
2007-04-08 11:42:37 · update #1
~stupid to try to say it now after so long. sounds like you just want to clear your guilt at his exspence. forgive yourself and move on. he doesn't need to hear this crap now! you were a dumb, shallow kid. so learn your lesson, YOU forgive you, and move the hell on already!!
2007-04-08 11:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You had your dream because something sparked a memory about him and the regret you felt for your actions was displayed in your dream.
It's never too late to say you're sorry but you have to think before you act. Are you doing it for the right reasons? Are you just trying to make yourself feel better? Or are you really concerned for him? Or are you just concerned about the way he thinks of you? And if you do apologize, will it hurt him even more by stirring up memories he'd rather forget?
But, maybe he does need a friend to talk to and cry on their shoulder. ..then again, you're the reason he's crying.
..no. You should just stay away. If you need to say sorry. Send a letter and flowers.
2007-04-08 11:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nympheas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about God, but it may be bothering your conscience. Is he still your friend? Does he know what happened back then? Honesty is always the best policy but I really doubt he'd forgive you if he was in love with the girl. Then again, he might be a really amazing guy and forgive you. Whether or not he forgives you, you will damage his trust in you if he didn't know about the incident already and you may never get that trust back. Personally, I wouldn't want to be friends with you. If I can't trust my friends completely, then they aren't really my friends.
2007-04-08 11:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Erika B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have truly repented to God and believe in your heart that He has forgiven you. He already has. God separates sin from you as far as the East is from the West. That's a huge separation. So stop dwelling on the sin and start rejoicing in His forgiveness.
2007-04-08 11:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have hurt your friend but consider this. She did not love your friend or she would not have went to bed with you at a party and your friend should realize that.
While you should have done the right thing and not slept with your friend's girlfriend, the girl has to take responsibility for her behavior.
2007-04-08 11:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Prof Fruitcake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is never too late to say you are sorry, dear one... but if God is trying to tell you something, it is to seek Him and ask His forgiveness as well.
Our Lord Jesus did not come to judge us now - but to lead us to the ways of righteousness. He wants fellowship with you, to teach you how to act lovingly and honorably - and peaceably with all whom you contact.
He desires fellowship with you, dear one.
As for your friend... taking responsibility for your actions is an act of manhood. If you are capable of asking your old friend for forgiveness, do so. ...But seek a church where you can talk to a minister about having a relationship with God. When you do wrong against anyone... you hurt the heart of God as well... He cries when you do wrong. Please seek to make it right with Him as well.
God is available for you to pray to - right now. You need no one else to do that... but it helps to talk with someone who has experience in ministry to talk things out.
I pray you find the peace you seek dear one.
2007-04-08 11:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Depoetic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have great guilt. This is what your dream means.
Do not confess to your friend. You would only be trying to alleviate your guilt by doing it. He can't handle the burden of your sin.
Confess to Jesus. He can carry the burden of any sin.
If you don't know how to do this, seek a Christian Spiritual Counselor and talk with him.
2007-04-08 11:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Grace 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's ever too late to say you're sorry. What the hell, if it's still on your mind then do it. He's probably over her by now and may not even think about it but if it'll clear your conscience the do it.
2007-04-08 11:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it is never too late to say "I'm sorry" but in the other hand...He might not even remember the party...Does he?
Are you guys still friends? It all depends, would it ruin your friendship? Those are things you should consider before you say anything at all.
2007-04-08 11:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kalikina 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Apololgize, but expect him to read you the riot act. Take the punishment like a man and expect to move on without him in your life.
2007-04-08 11:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey you need to go to that boy and his girl and say that your sorry then pray and ask god to forgive you for all of the sins that you commited and don't do it anymore.
2007-04-08 11:46:21 · answer #11 · answered by MARCiiA 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋