Me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago We had broken up once before and then got back together after being apart for about 5 days and that was a month ago So when we broke up this time we were both pretty ready for it b/c we had delt with the emotional stuff once before but I wasn't ready to break up we had been having such a good time being back together that I thought things would be okay, but that was over spring break, then we get back to school and she is upset again. So on top of it being frustrating for me to understand why, she tells me that she doesnt feel sexual for me and thinks she would cheat on me if we kept going out. So I am still pretty shocked, I mean she was being honest but is that really the only way to fix a sexual prblm with someone whom you have dated for a year? Then I find out that the night we broke up, hours later, she met some random guy while she was drunk at a party, which is totally unlike her, and then had a five way with him, how should I feel?
2007-04-08 11:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by ReconSix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feel better knowing that you found out now. If I were you I would hit the gym (if you have not already) and get in top shape. Do something different new with my looks...make yourself feel better..then find someone new. When your ex comes around- dont go back with her.
2007-04-08 11:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean a five way? Shes made it pretty clear things aren't going to work out. I personally would be pissed off if I was you, but I have been in the same situation as her. I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years when I was 18 and several flings soon after. They didn't mean anything though. You're broken up, you shouldn't feel betrayed, but at the same time she should have been respectful of you. I suggest, go out and have a bit of fun yourself. Good luck, break-ups are never easy.
2007-04-08 18:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by IzzyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel darned lucky you have found all this out about her now and not after you've made a commitment to her (or had a child). You're right, at least she was being honest with you, and that's good. There are millions of women in the world, and give it a little time. You'l eventually find the right one who feels the same about you as you do about her.
2007-04-08 18:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by JERILYN D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man I'm really sorry to hear that.
But the best thing to do is go out and date another girl but keep in mind that you still love her, but the most important thing is don't let it bother you to much because trust me it hasn't hit you yet. The other thing to do is ignore her don't talk to her and she will come and ask you whats up then you tell her( what do you think is up but so nice of you to ask) GIRLS DON'T REALIZE UN TILL IT'S TO LATE SO MAKE HER PAY AND IT WILL WORK.
2007-04-08 18:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by blue bird on the run 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Are you F kidding me?
The five way aside, you should feel F D up. She is NOT for you. If it's not there, that's it, move on.
Improve your image a little, start "puttin on the Ritz" - (from the old song), act confident no matter what, and you'll be amazed what happens.
2007-04-08 18:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be hard, but i think you should let her go. I mean if she doesnt feel sexual for you then thats like total no more and to meet another guy while she was drunk? what happens if she does this to you agian. If you guys just had problems then yeah thats fine, but cheating just crosses the line. Think about it.
2007-04-08 18:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's young, she's wants to experiment. I say let her get it out of her system and if you still feel the same way in a couple months, ask her out again.
2007-04-08 18:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-08 18:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should feel like C***. Things like this happen. Best thing to do is to forget about her, look forward and try and find someone new.
Good Luck.
2007-04-08 18:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DOSE NOT CARE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!FIND SOMEONE WHO IS JUST AS SWEET AS U AND B HAPPY LUV !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WISH U LOTS OF LUCK BABE
2007-04-08 18:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by lisa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋