I felt real bad about being rude to a woman who tuned me out. I wrote an apology. Is this okay? Should I have left her alone?
2007-04-08 10:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were looking to ease your conscience it is always appropriate to apologies, but not to force her to accept it.
2007-04-08 10:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I am impressed. You wrote an apology?
That gesture makes you a really great guy in her eyes. Yes, it does!!! It shows that you have class and you know that you made a mistake. That you are a man who's big and secure enough to admit his mistake and then apologize.
She'll never forget this gesture. By doing this you'll earn points that'll make your YA points pale in comparison. And those points will last longer than YA points!!!
She might not be interested right now. But she'll never forget your gentlemanly gesture and she will remember you always (yes, trust me, always). And then...who knows? Things change. In her eyes, you're a great guy who has style and class.
PS: I am saying this because something like this happened to me years ago. I still have a soft spot for the guy. Yes, many years later. Just because he wrote that apology and explanation.
2007-04-08 17:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you thought was right for the moment. If it was right for you then, it is still right. Move on. It wasn't you that was wrong, it was her for being rude. Congratulations on being a gentile man, it is a rare thing in this day and time. Perhaps she will learn, maybe she won't understand that she was rude. Thank you for doing the right thing.
2007-04-08 17:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you kept the apology short and to the point it probably made a good impression. Otherwise it's just more of the same.
2007-04-08 17:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a good person and you felt bad about being rude?
maybe??
2007-04-08 17:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People naturally feel sorry for people when they are rude because we have instincts that tell us that what we said is hurtful and we are letting our anger out wrong. You have morals. Good for you ;)
2007-04-08 17:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by wintennis91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just shows that you are a true gentleman (one of the few remaining)!
Let it go and don't look back - just move on to "greener pastures"!
2007-04-08 17:14:31 · answer #7 · answered by Heart is my Art 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think u should just talk to her and tell her in person that u were sorry. whatever did u do?
well talk it out to her and maybe just tell her that it wont happen again.
2007-04-08 17:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to apologize when we make mistakes-this is true for all of us.
2007-04-08 17:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's right that you did that,
and you admit that you've been rude.
i'm really glad to find out a few gentle man still exist..
2007-04-08 17:11:45 · answer #10 · answered by azumi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋