I think this boy likes me but I just can't be sure. I'm having trouble reading his signs because he's sort of socially awkward and maybe a little shy.
2007-04-08 09:06:48 · 14 answers · asked by bookworm1317 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well First of all you must ask yourself if you like him. Second of all I feel ya!! I'm going though the same thing. It's hard to know because they are shy and you can't tell if they like you. You talk to them and they say just enough to respond but not much more. They are so shy that you cannot tell if he is just being shy or not interested (especially if he only talks to 1 or 2 of his closest friends). Does this sound like your guy? Well I personally don't know what to do for sure because you don't want to wait forever and you don't want to ask him and one of three things happen Say yes as if to not to hurt your feelings (no one deserves to be in a relationship they don't want to be in), say no because he doesn't feel that way about you, or say yes because he loves you but never got the courage to talk to you. Just remember these things that could happen and consider them very much. Also to help convey the message you should try to talk to him and humor him, watch star wars and talk about the final battle scene or yoda. At first try not to be too flirty as not to scare him because nerdy guys don't get this type of attention and may think that it's you being extremely weird(not in the sci-fi way either). Then as time goes by make sure that you flirt a little more than with any other guy because usually the more book smart a person is the less social skills they have. If you have any questions email me and Good Luck. I hope you two get together and it lasts! Also if it doesn't work out remember that EVERYTHING happens for a reason!
2007-04-08 09:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by SallyJane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think it depends on desire and determination. That desire lives in the nether regions. That determination is in the heart. Some slightly nerdy guys will ask right way. Others will wait and wait and wait and...
He may not be that into you. Be sure he truly likes you and that he doesn't already have a girl. Those could be the reason why he hasn't approached you despite the chemistry flowing between the two of you.
2007-04-08 16:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and he might be the next president of the United States! Just be nice to the guy and give him a chance. Maybe have lunch together??? You can stand him for 2 hrs. even if it doesn't work out. Give the nerd a break. The cards say you will glad you did!!! Godloveya.
2007-04-08 16:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol same situation wit me. there are two extremely awkward/nerdy boys in my grade who can't take their eyes off me. they like to stare at you often, you'll catch them staring. oftentimes they're too startled to stop!! try talking to them. when they talk to you they do lots of arm movements, shift their glance constantly from your eyes/face to the floor, and don't really know what to say. after you stop talking they follow you around for a bit, walking right behind you, contemplating their last wonderful discussion with you. like ten minutes later they'll try and start up another one.
ha...yup, had experience. if u like the guy, ask him out. he's sure to say yes...after a longgg stunned pause (not that i've asked one out...).
2007-04-08 16:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if hes nerdy he might act a little weird or awkward or nervious around you
2007-04-08 16:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If some one likes you you need to watch out for the signs better. Like if he likes you then he might talk to you a litttle bit more or he might look away everytime you look at him. Nobody knows for sure if some one likes them.
2007-04-08 16:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They get so excited that the tape falls off their glasses. Milk shoots out their nose when they drink. And they quote lines from Star Trek.
2007-04-08 16:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry but guys like that do not say anything they just keep their emotions to themselves i dont think he is ever going to tell you, you have to get it out of him
2007-04-08 16:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lorena A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be so nerdy might help
2007-04-08 16:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by janet m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move on him, to help him out.
2007-04-08 16:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋