ok so there is this girl ive know forever since we were just 2 months old she has a brother that is a year older than both of us and i think he loves me!? any time i walk by him he tries to show off and impress me also he kept trying to get me alone with him i know he likes me but it might be weird to go out with him becouse he is sort of like a brother to me but i also kind of like him alot! what do i do plese i need help now!
2007-04-08 09:02:12 · 24 answers · asked by Colleen! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it will mess up the close relationship between you and the girl (when u go to her house, who will you be spending the most time with, will it be awkward?) then don't. but if your friend is ok with it, go for it!! just remember to still spend time with just the girl, not her brother, or her and her brother. say sometime to your friend, "i think {brother's name here} likes me alot. he always seems to be doing stuff to impress me and get me alone with him. ahh...what would you feel like if we went out? would it mess up our relationship?" she'll feel much better with your talking to her first, because she knows that she's still the top priority. you'll work things out just fine :) good luck hun!!!!
2007-04-08 09:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you consider him as a brother to you then you should not try to have any other relationship with him other then the one you have always had with him. Besides if it don't work out then things will be weird between you and your friend. When ever you hanging out with her or at her house your going to always have to see her brother. So it's probably best to just stay friends/family.
2007-04-08 16:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see two things: no problem and a huge problem. I see no problem because some people have dated their best friend's sibling and ended up getting married them. Others have dated, broken up and are still friends. The major problem is that things could be awkward for his sister and you if you date him and you guys break up. I just don't know. Me, I've always gotten along with my boyfrined's family. It was awkward at first because his brother goes to my school and we don't really talk there, but we do at his house. You get different conclusions to different decisions. Good luck anyways!
2007-04-08 16:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Go where your heart takes you and don't over analyse it! The more you think about it the more confused you'll get. You have only ONE life you will never be this age again! Don't live with what if, so it might work it might not, your mate might be not! you won't know till you try!
2007-04-08 16:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by rachel.cox4@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him that he is like your brother
because the best solution to solve a problem is have a talk
let him know what u think
he may be disappointed for a movement but it will benefit u both
tell him that u r still like a sister and u too love him
but as a brother
try it will work
but don't try to dominate
just try to be polite
2007-04-08 16:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by weeboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, is it worth risking your friendship with his sister? Is this guy worth it? Because if it doesn't work out there will be hard feelings and she might blame you for hurting her brother or she might side with you and be mad at her brother. Either way it won't feel the same walking it to their house after that.
2007-04-08 16:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by student202003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately likes you and when you have your first kiss, you'll know more if it can go to a relationship of any sorts
You say he walks past you. Does he ever stop to talk or flirt with you?
If not you need to start speaking or talking to him and he you and find out if he is going to ask you to go do anything with him. jusy you and he. If he doesn't, take it upon yourself to say, hey(insert name)______, lets go ___________ and have some fun instead of you just being a jerk all the time....something like that....keep it light and fun and funny...bowling, pool, basketball, games,throwing the football, anything like that
good luck
2007-04-08 16:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he aint ur brother so u can date him but i know what u mean by his like a brother to u i have one of those. but what better to start a relationship than wit da one u grew up with. just let ur feelings go and see where it takes u.
2007-04-08 16:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i pretty sure he likes you, you could:
1: make out with his best friend
2:tell he that you think of him as a brother
3:pretend you dont know anything
4:go out with him
5:tell him that you knida like him more as a friend but you see him as a brother & it would be to weird if you two went out
good luck & #1 is a joke dont be stupid & make out with his best friend
2007-04-08 16:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get more and better answers, if you USE PUNCTUATION!!
It's hard to read these long, run-on sentences, that look like some free-association ramblings of a manic depressive.
2007-04-08 16:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋