16 and want a baby!!!?

Question

I have been with my bf for 2 years, and I want to get pregnant, but I am on the pill and he wont do it w/out a condom. I want to have a family right now with him so bad. I asked him if he woul dlove me even if i got pregnant and e said he would and he would be a jack *** if he didn't. How can i get pregnant since I am using two forms of bc, I have thought about missing pills

Answer 1

im sorry
but to what i see, u r not quite suitable to form a family yet.
First, ur bf doesnt have a stable income.

U said ur bf loves u very much and u luv him.
BUT U R ONLY 16!!!

to be honest with u, its not weird that one day he woke up n found out that he dont love u anymore.

listen to a true story bout me.
its the SAME AS YOURS!

i love my bf too. and he SAID HE LOVE ME TILL HE DIE!!
i was so touched and i got pregnant with his kid. One day, he lost his feelings towards me. He said he didnt believe bout that feeling but it was real.
He lost feelings in me.
He DONT LOVE ME ANYMORE!!!

i was so sad.
i wanted to commit suicide but was saved by god.
i wanted to kill the baby but i dont dare.
finally i gave birth to a boy.
my mum have to raise my boy up 4 me.

so i advice u to think carefully.
u dont wanna folllow my footsteps.

NOW IT MIGHT SOUNDS UNBELIEVABLE TO U,
BUT DONT REGRET WHEN IT TRUELY HAPPENS ONE DAY.

Answer 2

Want to be a mommy checklist:

Are you in a secure MARRIAGE with little or no fighting and absolutely zero violence? If so, move on to next question.

In this secure marriage, are your finances stable? Is there a steady income that will not be interrupted by maternity leave? After paying all of your bills, is there plenty of excess? Baby-raising supplies are not always cheap and you will need more of them than you think. If all answers are yes, move on to next question.

Do you have a secure living place that is not either of your parents houses? An apartment from which you do not foresee getting evicted? A house you do not see getting foreclosed? If so, move on to next question.

Are you a very patient person? Have you dicussed discipline ideas with the potential father? Have you taken parenting classes that teach just what the raising of a child can entail? In short, are you prepared for the 20 or more years of constant challenges you will face with a child?

If the answer to anything asked above was no, or even an unsure sort of yes, then you should start appreciating your boyfriend a lot more than you currently do. He loves you enough to insist on condoms and birth control to keep you from throwing away your life on having a child in your teens. Get a high school diploma and a college degree and broach the subject with him again when you are 23 and married. If the two of you are not still together in 7 years, then not having a child with him is a good thing, because divorce can hurt a child a lot more than you think. So can any sort of broken family, even if you and the father were never married.
So before you do something rash and become pregnant, think about what the child needs to lead a happy, healthy life.

Answer 3

by the sound of it...YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO HAVE A BABY!!!

i'm sorry! but you can't have a baby without your partners consent and you're even planning an evil scheme to get pregnant...that is a sure sign of immaturity!

answer this questions first, then decide if you're going to have a baby!

1 ARE YOU FINANCIALLY STABLE?? honestly how much money do you have at the bank? do you even have a bank account?

2 HOW WOULD YOU PAY FOR THE HOSPITAL BILLS? what if there are complications? even without one, health care is very expensive!!

3. right now answer this question, HOW MUCH IS ONE CAN OF MILK AND A PACK OF DIAPER COST? if you don't know the answer you are DEFINITELY NOT READY!!

4. WHERE DO YOU LIVE?? In your parents' house? chances are you'd be leaving the baby with your mom while you work your *** off to get the baby immunized!

5. DO YOU EVEN HAVE A COLLEGE DEGREE?? or at least a job you're sure of will still be there for you 5 years from now? and can it support your clothes, shoes and coffee fix and your baby's clothes, shoes and his milk fix?

6. What the hell would you tell your kid where his dad is?? bet you'll tell him, he left you because he didn't want a baby....

i think you're just depress and finding a new kick for your relationship! don't do it this way, you'll be hurting some one else who doesn't even want to be born yet!

TRY AGAIN WHEN YOU HAVE ANSWERED THOSE QUESTIONS!!!

ON THE MEAN TIME.....GROW UP!!!! FINISH COLLEGE AND GET A GOOD-PAYING J.O.B.!!!

GEEZ....

Answer 4

honet are you nuts? you dont want a baby now, you need to finish school and get a job to pay for a baby first. I have a 4 month old son and he is expensive. Do you know a can of formula cost $13 and it last 3 days? I spend over $200 a month in formula and cereal. and even more in diapers. Do you know how much a baby sitter costs now a days? Do you know that most teen fathers who say they will stick around dont even last through out the pregnancy. I think you need to look at the real reason you want a baby. It is to fill a void that is in your heart. You need to find out what that hole is from and fill it by fixing that relationship and not bringing a baby into the world that you are not prepared to take care of financially or emotionally. Wait trust me I havent slept a full night in 4 moths, even on the rare occasion when his gradma takes him overnight I still cant sleep.

Answer 5

To try to trap someone into a pregnancy is insane, he would sooner or later grow to hate you, and when you have the child and understand how hard it is emotionally, physically, and financially, especially without a highschool diploma you will regret ever trying to do it. I think your boyfriend is an intelligent man, and that he cares enough for you and himself to use protection. My advice would be to wait until you are married before bringing children in this world...How will either of you go to college? Daycare is extremely expensive, what about health insurance for the baby? I can see that you are too young and immature to even have a baby if you even think about betraying your partner by trying to make him a father when he isn't even ready. A baby isn't a toy that you play with, being pregnant at 16 isn't cute even a little bit, you need to seriously rethink your decision.

Answer 6

oh honey please do not get pregnant. Enjoy yourself without baggage. Babies are so cute, but they crap, cry and never go away. Never mind how much work they are. No sleep either. I didnt even mention the $$. Then when they get bigger like 2 yrs and up, they have major attitide and drive u crazy. Now I see the attitide just gets bigger as they get older. All my daughters friends that are 6 are the same way. I waited till I was 23 and married to have my 1st. If I could do it over again I would wait a couple more years. I dont regret my kids at all, and I love them to so much. but I'm very happy I waited. Do it for yourself wait.

Answer 7

Do not cheat him. If you misstreat his trust, it will haunt you for the rest of your life. You're young. Do you have any financial security? How do you plan on feeding yourself, much less a kid?

Please, think this through. Think of every possible detail, and if at the end you still feel confident that a baby is what you want, talk it out with your boyfriend. If he says no, that's that. Do not try to "miss" a pill or what not. That is morally objective.

Answer 8

First, don't be in such a rush! You didn't say how old your boyfriend is, but I'm going to guess that he is around your age. You are not ready financially or emotionally. It would be a HUGE mistake to have a baby at this point in your life, even if your boyfriend agreed.

Second, you should be ashamed of yourself for even considering trying to get pregnant behind your boyfriends back we he isn't ready to be a father.

If you go through with this, you will most likely ruin your life, your boyfriends life, your relationship with him, and most importantly the life of your baby. Wait until you're both older, financially stable, and emotionally ready. You've got plenty of time.

Answer 9

You definitely do not need a baby. There are so many children being born to single moms. You and your boyfriend need to stay in school and get an education so that you and your child does not have to live in poverty. You will not be able to adequately support the baby and will have to go on welfare. Living in poverty for the rest of your life will be the result of making this decision to have a baby now. Expecting yours and his parents to be responsible to take care of all three of you is not fair to your parents. Why do you not ask them if they are ready to be grandparents and take on the responsiblity of having to help you since you will not be able to do this alone? This is not a decision that will be only affecting you, and the baby, but your boyfriend should not be forced into becoming a father.

Answer 10

I say good for him for using a condom with his girlfriend who is obviously quite out of her mind for wanting a baby at 16. Stay on the pill. You "love" him and that's great. That should be enough. You need to experience life first before having a family of you own.

Answer 11

Girl at 16 you honestly don't need a baby...I am sure you think you love this guy and he thinks he loves you, but come on have you thought about how you are going to support this child? where are you going to live? what about school? My advice to you is Please wait until you are out of school. YOU should be enjoying your teen years for you, not becoming a mom! Have you tried babysitting? if so, then you should already know that it is not easy raising (taking care of) a child, there is a lot of work involved.Oh! you really should talk with your mom or another trusted adult.