My boyfriend just asked me if i'm going to date him, he would like me to stop talking to my guy friends.
never talk to any of my ex's again
and not to talk to guys on my cell phone?
what should i do? \
he doesn't trust me. that upsets me, i have never cheated on anyone. or would i think of it.
should i dump him
2007-04-08 04:30:19 · 14 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First ask him why, and if you feel it is a good reason then, Ask him to do the same. If he refuses then you refuse. A relationship should be equal, and it should also be based on trust and honesty.
But also think, would you be okay with him taking to other girls and his ex's on his cellphone, if you would I give you props b/c I know I wouldn't. Honestly the guy thing I feel is okay but the ec's is a little overboard. Ex is exactly that, an ex-relationship, to be left alone.
2007-04-08 04:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by bre714 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him into the featheriest dump site! This boy is abusive and controlling! You will be abused big time. Next thing will be he will try to get rid of your parents and the rest of your family. If you have trouble getting away from him talk to a cop. I mean this. As kids who are like this end up as adults in prison for murdering their lovers! I was almost one of those dead gals. I am lucky!
Just browse the Crime Library. You will see how many kids are killed every year like this.
It's scary. But true!
2007-04-08 11:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has severe insecurity issues here and that's not a healthy sign. Women can retain male friends as "friends only" and vice versa...even ex's.
I would tell him you can't stay with someone who doesn't trust you 100% and unless he does a complete 360, dump him.
2007-04-08 11:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by NewGrandma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that insecure at this stage of the relationship is probably only going to get worse, Do you really want someone to accuse you of cheating and monitoring your every move all the time.
2007-04-08 11:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait! i don't think you should dump him just yet First talk to him about it and tell him if he wants it to work then he has to make some exceptions. Just explain to him that your the one he likes and no one else. I think he should become more reasonable and if he doesn't maybe its time to split.
2007-04-08 11:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking to anyone of the male gender is a bit extreme, but I don't think I would approve of my GF talking to her ex's, as you have a intimate history with that person.
He may be a bit insecure and you need to talk to him. Do not allow him to be controlling of you.
2007-04-08 11:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by yarmiah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K. so lets get this straight . He expects you to give up all other male conversation simply because you become his girlfriend ?Tell me is he going to do the same about his female friends? I think maybe he has a problem .
2007-04-08 11:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Neal S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!! He's a super control freak! You don't have to live that way... and if you continue with him telling you what to do... he will someday be much worse! Imagine being married to a man like that! My sister is, and her marriage has become a prison! She is miserable!
2007-04-08 11:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's something you have to make your own choice. I belive that's a bad sign, and he will be forever watching you. I couldn't live in a relationship in which I would have to watch every step I make.
2007-04-08 11:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you to stop talking to them well u should not this is ur choice ur life if he wants u stop talking to all ur guy friends well then he cant talk to any of his exs or gal friends he you should really dump he he is making ur life really bad !
2007-04-08 11:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by sassykassy95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋