hes weired cuz he says if you love me you will have sex with me. he never pays. he sasy he don't trust his mom but you should always have money in your hand no matter what . he kisses me in front of his family i m not ready for that. his mom leaves us alone in her appartment which i don't think its right and thats when he want to take advantage of me alot. i think hes to fast for me.
2007-04-08 04:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by k m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a boyfriend you like.
2007-04-08 04:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tall Chicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, his 17 year old hormones are interpreting that "laugh it off" approach as you flirting and inviting him to do it more. You've only been together 2 weeks, don't worry about being "mean" about it, just come right out and say it and be blunt about it. Anything else will be misinterpreted as you playing hard to get and/or flirting and asking for more. Just tell him "stop, I'm not ready for that kind of physical contact yet." At this point in the relationship, I wouldn't even bother with a "please" or "I really like you" because honestly it's far too early for anyone to think it's ok to cross those personal boundary lines without a direct invitation from you. He'll either get over you being "mean about it" and start to respect your personal space, or he is only with you for the sex in the first place and you really won't be loosing out on anything by getting rid of him after only two weeks.
2016-05-19 23:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by tamra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Please do something for yourself and either voice up to him or leave him because I GUARANTEE there is someone else out there that won't treat you like this. If he loves you he wouldn't be doing this to you. Love isn't about giving into things you don't want to do especially when it is your sexuality. If you aren't feeling okay about that then it means you aren't ready for that. Take it from me. I have been in a four year loving relationship where I DID NOT have sex because I chose not to, and he respected me and never forced me to do anything I didn't want to do. I am now in another relationship and my boyfriend respects me and my choice to not have sex and to me that makes a really strong relationship because he loves me for me and nothing less. IT IS NOT RIGHT that he is taking advantage of you seem like a sweet person that deserves nothing but the greatest respect. Either tell him NO and that he needs to respect you or WALK AWAY before you regret something.
2007-04-08 04:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you need to have a major talk with your boyfriend. you're right, he is moving too fast but most of all, HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU. be firm with him and say, "i don't like it when you do this, don't disrespect me ever again." let him know how you feel about the p.d.a. in front of your family as well. if he doesn't stop, get rid of him. a man who doesn't respect you isn't worth your time.
2007-04-08 04:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by yeah.whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. its true, you need someone who respects you for who you are. I dont understand what he's on about money, thats not important to your relationship. It sounds like all he wants is sex, leave him and find a decent guy who wants you for you, not sex.
2007-04-08 04:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by TomSp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,... how old are you and how long have you been dating this creep? He is moving too fast for you and you need to tell him to cool it or you're history! Tell him exactly how you feel... and then if he doesn't change...get out of Dodge ok!
2007-04-08 04:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He's never going to keep his hands off you. You need a boyfriend who understands you.
2007-04-08 04:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to cut him loose, and find someone who respects you for you. Take care, and good luck.
2007-04-08 04:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him that u dont like to be touched like that.
Sorry but i dont think this is a good guy, if he loved u he would never ask u for sex.
2007-04-08 04:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by baby_ml 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him. You want someone to respect you, not be a jerk.
2007-04-08 04:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by griffinthecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋