My boyfriend is in the Army and for half of a year we were really close friends. we've been dating for almost a month.well yesterday i asked him if he wants to get serious with me because he acts like he does. he told me how he does and he has been thinking about it alot like everyday and hes been planning how we woudl live etc.. so it goes on.but is he like asking me? were still discussing it too still.
2007-04-08 03:32:08 · 25 answers · asked by Andrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was talking about marrying me and wanting to live together etc.. how he is considering it.. etc and he was discussing it with me. we didnt get a chance to finsih discussing we are today.. whoa i think he asked me..
2007-04-08 03:38:17 · update #1
It sounds like he is wanting to know what your answer might be before he pops the question.
2007-04-08 03:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...it sounds more like he's homesick. If I were you, I would wait to see him face to face, after all, marriage isn't something that you can consider over a telephone conversation when you've only been oficially dating one month. Friendship is 1000 times different than having a romantic relationship, so the fact that you have been friends a long time doesn't really have much of an effect when it comes to that type of decision. I've known couples who have been best friends for years, date a couple of years even get engaged--break up marry someone else and never look back.
So I would wait 'til he gets back and you two can start dating for REAL. Not just over the phone. Good luck!
2007-04-08 10:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY WHEN He presents = = AN ENGAGEMENT RING = = is he then Serious!
Many Girls are lulled into Free SEX by the Talk of Marriage ONLY TO BE TAKEN!
No Ring, No Seriousness! IF he want SEX = Tell him "on our Wedding Night!"
Thanks, RR
2007-04-08 10:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe talking about living together but I don't think its marriage. still in the discussing stage.
2007-04-08 10:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's thinking about you having a future together not getting married yet. but you have plenty of time for marriage.
2007-04-08 10:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks you to marry him he will say .... will you marry me... since you were only together for one month that normally is not enough time to get to first base. This is not how a marriage starts.
2007-04-08 10:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Saint Lucipher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has high hopes that you would say yes if he asks you. He feels that he could see both of you together. He is not asking you yet but looking to see how it would be like with you two together.
2007-04-08 10:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by fire_gaurd 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would ask him what he is wanting. Sounds like just living together.
2007-04-08 10:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if he is asking you to marry him or expecting you to marry him. If you've been really good friends, why don't you just ask him?
2007-04-08 10:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jason C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's thinking it over and planning. Good luck girl!
2007-04-08 10:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by z0rd0npkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋