okay,yesterday i had a track meet and it was snowing outside. me and my friends desided to get under the tent and "cuddle" together to keep each other warm. well my guys firends decided to keep me warm and i decided to help them out because they were damn near frostbitten. But my boyfriend he took it the wrong way and he thought one of my guy firends were trying to touch me because we were close trying to keep each other warm. also my boyfriend said that he was too focused on the meet yesterday. he acted like he dint want to be around me. so i called him later and he said that he hated mefor a while. What should i do and plus tommorrow is my b-day a nd i dont want to feel like this tomorrow.and i fell kind of bad for trying to take care of a couple of my friends.
2007-04-08 02:36:02 · 10 answers · asked by ssydny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i know this is a stupid question but am i a slut for doing this?
2007-04-08 05:26:09 · update #1
oh and he was crying over the phone
2007-04-08 05:28:21 · update #2
tell ur boyfriend what happened if he dosent understand drop him because he should trust u
2007-04-08 02:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. My boyfriend's taken things the wrong way before. Make sure that your guy friend's understand that it was to keep warm so that squashes any elbowing the guys do as a guy thing behind a girl's back. Do it as soon as you can and firmly. And as far as your boyfriend, of course he's going to be upset. He knows how guys think bc he's a guy and he's upset bc you are his girl and no way should this have happend (in his mind). Of course girls are always more guillible than guys and get into situations that may not look the best. But also be firm with your bfriend and let him know what your intentions were. Don't let him get you down. Let him sort his thoughts and he'll come around. Besides Birthday girl you have a big day to prepare for! And you deserve to be the star!!!!
2007-04-08 09:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to your boy friend for being too physical with other guys while you and he were not suppose to do those kind of things. He is jealous and he needs reassurance that you still love him more than you love any other boys--that you would rather cuddle with him than anyone else. I am sure both you and the boys you were cuddling with got a sexual charge out of what you were doing and that is one reason why you were doing it. Just admit it. Tell him you just got caught up in the moment and let things get a little our of hand and you are sorry. You won't do anything like that again until you both break up and you are free to do what you want with who you want when you want. For now you will honor your committement you him and your relationship.
2007-04-08 09:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't a sexual thing, but something to generate body heat for warmth, then he has the problem, not you. Unless it was in a sexual way, then he could she you as a flirt. Or one of the guys that you were with could be attracted to you or another girl and said something to all of the other guys. But, understand this, if you were the only girl, then yes it was a problem.
2007-04-16 05:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by dakotaviper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you BF to get over it. If he doesn't than go back to warming your friends. They are more important anyways. Happy Birthday!!
2007-04-08 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by curly_bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have made a pretty big mistake. How would you feel if your boyfreind was "keeping" a female freind warm? Not cool. If you don't want to feel like this then dump him, cuz it seems like you really don't care. good luck
2007-04-16 09:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no ur not a ***** for doing that! u were just tryin to take care of a couple of friends... hes jsut either too overprotective or sumthin... ii wouldnt worry bout it he'll come around
2007-04-16 08:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by country_gurl <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was cold and you all had to stay warm so dont you feel like you did anything wrong.
2007-04-08 09:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him your side but don't push him to believe you...just comfort yourself and put this into your mind..what's wrong with helping your friends...your nice...he's narrow-minded...
2007-04-08 10:21:15 · answer #9 · answered by lytel_hartz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!
2007-04-08 09:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋