I'm planning to move in with my fiance a couple of months before the wedding date and all this time we decided to wait to have sex after we're married. Now, do you think is possible for us to live together without having sex?
2007-04-08 02:30:45 · 19 answers · asked by cheesecake 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is possible as long as you have a strong will and respect. It is like when you are too hungry and on diet and they bring you a big pizza, you must control yourself and not eat.
2007-04-08 02:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by UnluckyGirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the amount of sexual tension between you two. You both have made the decision to wait so with that and a lot of patience sure. But know that the closer the time gets the harder it will be and the more stress it will put on you two in an already very stressful time, be prepared and talk a lot. Good luck and I wish you two the best.
2007-04-08 09:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering I don't know you or your history, it's impossible to answer this question. But I will tell you, that men are very sexual creatures. To live with a man you're "involved" with, and NOT have sex could very well lead to problems. It's like putting a steak on the floor in front of a starving dog and not allowing him to eat it. If you do end up living with him, i would suggest you do not do anything to provoke his interest. Such as: showering when he's home, walking around in sexy jammies, etc.
2007-04-08 09:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by kari w 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible because if you two respect each other and yourselves and your love is not built on sexual or physical but more of the mental and spiritual then sure but if you think that there may be a strong possibility that you or he may not be able to keep away from each other in that manner then you might not want to stay together until every thing is official.
2007-04-08 09:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but both of you will need to be strong. Maybe if possible, still try sleeping in different beds. You're going to lose that nice ability to stop and leave if things are moving too fast in the wrong direction. But you can do it, Good luck!
2007-04-08 09:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think possible but not probable. If you truly wish to wait I think that living together prior is going to be a little dangerous..you're going to be VERY tempted. If you've waited this long I wouldn't think you'd want to mess up what I'm sure will turn out to be a really magical night. Congratulations and good for you!
2007-04-08 09:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by bresmama 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. As long as you both agree to this arrangement. Be sure to be private when you shower, get ready for bed, etc. Treat him like you would a brother right now and it will work out. Good luck, Sweetie.
2007-04-08 09:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ain't gonna happen, Cheesecake. Live apart until you're married, then you will be so happy you did.
You are risking a lot, here, including your reputation, if you decide to move in together.
Good Luck
2007-04-08 09:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its Called Being Roomates....Why Is Everybody Blaming The Man For Being The Sexual Aggressor Here ? ? ?
2007-04-08 09:37:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's hard not to have sex with your fiance if you live together. it's tempting. maybe it's better to live together with you fiance after you get married.
2007-04-08 09:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Natz Tadyka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋