I am half Japanese and for some reason every guy I meet thinks I am going to be this 'exotic godess'? I am different from alot of people and I have never met anyone that looks like me. My guy friends say they find that I am intimidating looks wise. I just want people to notice me for my personality, not my looks! Is that too much to ask. And when I do get into a relationship none of my b/f's trusted my cause my looks! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-08 02:09:00 · 5 answers · asked by lil~confused~one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show ur personality. look your ugliest. if you really ARE that pretty. look your worst. stop using facial cleanser. talk a little louder and more confident. be charismatic. flush your reputation down your toilet. never be perfect. that would be really hot. trust me. show that you're human. that you're not special or perfect. you're not miss universe. you're not asking for world peace. you don't want to ban violent video games. you make mistakes. you quarrel, you love, you hate...
if you come from a wealthy family, show that you are not. show that you are capable, independent, not some whiny teenybopper. show ur maturity, intelligence.
you understand that there are people worst of than you. ex:people raised in poverty who gets beaten up by their parents and teachers blame them for not being able to think for themselves or "catch their own fish". you put yourself in other people's shoes. you're not miss america asking for world peace. you let kids be kids. you let guys be guys.
2007-04-08 02:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by ethandallas90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a little time. Of course, the first thing guys notice is looks -- eyes are the fastest receptors.
Determine what you really want in a guy, and don't settle for anything else. Apparently, with your looks, you won't have any trouble having a large pool of applicants!
The key is to really know yourself, and that's the hardest task of all.
Good luck.
2007-04-08 02:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the foreign women, exotic, dangerous, possibly unable to be satisfied, by us white guys. Just keep going to you end up with a sophisticated man, like me!. Only kidding. There's someone out there for you.
2007-04-08 02:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by TJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you have to go thru that. It is a shame to be honest cuz iv seen loadsa guys do that. I think you should jus be yourself and show people that your personality is more imp that ur looks...they will soon come around to realising that they are dumb enough to judge u by your looks..
don wory too much bout it..its their loss
2007-04-08 02:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a guy with a lot of self-confidence, or date a blind guy. Guys can be very insecure too - keep looking for a better guy.
2007-04-08 02:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋