My fiance and my wedding is coming up this summer. We're in the process of planning that, moving 600 miles away and finding new jobs. Needless to say we haven't had a break in a long time and I'm truly exhausted as I also work full time. He is out of town, where we are moving, in order to do some interviewing. He went on an all day bender and then got mad at me when I called a couple times to see how his day was going. He really embarassed me as he's hanging out with "his" friends who I'm trying to form a relationship with him, and now they think I'm a nag. What to do??
2007-04-08 01:30:36 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Stop nagging him! He's not one of your female friends that wants to chat on the phone all day. He probably hates the thing. Here's the deal - the less you call him, the more he'll call you; the less you tell him/question him, the more he'll openly tell you. It's just how guys operate. Give him some space, take a deep breath, call a girlfriend up...but leave him alone! I don't know any guy that'd appreciate being called a few times a day just to see how his day is going. Remember, he's not a girl!
2007-04-08 01:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by crazytazzygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you call once a day or several times during the day?
If the latter, cut it back to once a day, more than that is overkill.
He could always call you.
2007-04-08 02:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just stressed out...and calling him a couple of times might have triggered something...so i suggest that you give him some space...or better yet just call him once a day i think that's enough =)
2007-04-08 01:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by chelsy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋