it goes like this. Girl A has prob with her bf Boy A. when Girl A was down,she called Boy B to lend her a crying shoulder.since than Boy B has express feelings for Girl A as Boy B has a crush on Girl A years ago. Girl A tells Boy B that she knows that he has feelings for her but will only try if she n boy A breaks up.(Girl A loves Boy A more that Boy A treasure her).Meanwhile Boy B can only Be there for her console her etc.since days have pass, Girl A n boy A has yet to come to a conclusion on to break or not although A Boy has asked for it.
Gril A likes to be with B Boy now somehow sometimes behaving like a new couple...is there any outcome for this? or is boy B just having wishful thoughts?
2007-04-08 00:38:58 · 10 answers · asked by subaru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is much better off with boy B.......boy A dont care about her all he wants is somthing from her..........at the momemt she has to see that its wrong for boy A to treat her the way he is and she is better off with out him and better of beeing happy with in herself and with somone that cares more for her then getting somthing form her......... she really needs to see what boy A is doing to her.......does she have the internet or msn i could help her by talking to her with out her knowing i have talked to you
2007-04-08 01:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong to love a woman who has a boyfriend? No. Is it wise? Also no. Is it a good idea to act on it? NO again.
This girl is in a bad place in her relationship BUT she should not have put you in this position. She knows you have feelings for her, and she may be just using you as a sounding board, and to be a stop gap. For her to tell you that IF it doesn't work out with her boyfriend she MIGHT take you on, is cruel.
Does her boyfriend know about you or could she be playing you both? If she hasn't told him about you and you feel that she has been playing "Couples" with you, then she's cheating on him. Is this what you want for yourself? A girl that believes she's entitled to try out someone else while in a relationship?
I suggest you back off a little until she has made a decision one way or the other.
2007-04-08 07:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't. But I wouldn't say it is wrong. A person going through a rough state or fresh after breakup has a very complex state of mind, wanting/needing attention and affection. When accepted or shown usually doesn't mean an interest towards me, so I would wait till eveything calms down.
BTW, I DID date a girl, who was trying to forget someone else when we started and she even told me that. I guess in our case, it didn't matter much (but, wait, now, I wonder........)
2007-04-08 07:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility of things going smooth. however, BoyB should be careful because he might be confused with the attention he is getting from GirlA. The right thing to do is ask GirlA what and who she really wants. BoyB has to make sure everything is clear to everyone involved. If not, all hell will break loose. Plus, BoyB wouldn't want to ruin his friendship with GirlA. Good Luck.
2007-04-08 07:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by migordabella89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not "wrong" but it may be a huge strain on you. I'd steer clear of any chick who's still hung up on another guy. You'll find yourself constantly being compared to him or always fearing that he may come back into her life. Girls are wacky about that kind of stuff. Good luck with this one.
This is one reason why it's so hard for guys to like girls "for who they are" because you don't know who you are. Too much drama. Life's to short for such BS.
2007-04-08 07:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not forget this "Boy A" and "Girl B" stuff and begin again by asking it like. "I like this girl who is having trouble with her boyfriend....." You are going to lose a lot of readers like you lost me. it sounds like a maze.
2007-04-08 07:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a complicated affair. There will bound to have a Boy C. just let nature takes its course. don't be too serious about it.
2007-04-08 09:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be wrong? i think, you could only do more good to her than damage. Go boy!
2007-04-08 07:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Corad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out if he is peed off with her your luck cud be in
2007-04-08 07:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love is love.
2007-04-08 07:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋