please help me how should i proceed on my wedding night as she is a virgin. and have heard that it will hurt her. so please advice me step by step what is to be done and how could i help her to ease her tension and make her comfortable.....
2007-04-08 00:33:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
first of all...dnt be determinded that u must do sex on the first night......if u only gossip with her on the first night, and at the end of night u just sleep hugging her in ur cheast....she will really start respecting u a lot....tell her on first night, "i want our boths perticipants in our intimate life....as i f nothing without u and u r nothing without me from today. this whole day was full of tiredness, so i m giving u time for rest - but, rememebr, for the last night(and smile)".....she is matured enough, so she too has also sex drive....so, u just kiss her a lot..it will make her horny......fingering it will help her to open up-it will hurt her little. if possible, for next 2/3 days only do fingering....so, at the final day she will get less pain.Hold her strongly....during final sex, put ur lips on her lips...so that, she cant shout, tell her b4 kissing, "sweetheart, i never ant to hurt u...but, now u will get some pain, but believe me i m going to give u havenic peace"....so, that she would get confidence on uthat u wont hurt her..u wuill try all possible way to make her pain less. All the best.
2007-04-08 05:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Probably the best thing is to make sure that she has an orgasm even before your start sticking your Big Willie into her. There are multiple ways of achieving this - think of one yourself. Furthermore, as always, when you ****, give her the control: Lead her hands down to be able to make space for the thang. And let her come on top of you.
But in general, the top advices should do: Keep calm - and don't forget to end it all with a nice "oh my god i'm coming" face!
2007-04-08 00:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Indiana Frenchman 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my boyfriend made it easy for me too since i was a virgin and he was my first
you could help "open her up" by fingering her
and gradually start having intercourse with her but make sure you do this slowly as if you do it fast you can hurt her
just do what you think will make her feel the most comfortable
usually you just go along with it
2007-04-08 00:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is not where you can be explicit. You just go with the flow. You cannot ask that question on here as this has children. You will know what to do and she will be able to tell you what she likes as you go. Go slow and communicate. Congratulations.
2007-04-08 00:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have nothing to be concerned about. From the rumours I've heard in the locker room, you wouldn't hurt a virgin gerbil!
Anyway, here's the advice bit:
Go downstairs to the hotel reception and ask for a copy of the Yellow Pages. Go to the section marked 'divorce lawyers' and start phoning around, getting quotes. Good luck to all involved. Cheers!
2007-04-08 00:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Oliver T4 4 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Listen to her and what she wants. It could be very possibly painful for her, so the sex might not last that long. Just be prepared to do things HER way.
2007-04-08 04:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by griffinthecat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lots of oral sexy until she feels ready she will let you know and try having some KY jelly just in case
maybe extra champagne
2007-04-08 00:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy easter.
2007-04-08 01:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋