I dont think you get it how ugly I am, im like smack-you-in-the-face horrendous....I'm like Shrek on a bad day.....When I walk down the street, children cry....What hope is there for me? :)
2007-04-07 21:21:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im fugly..its cool..im over it. NOW HELP! lol
2007-04-07 21:25:15 · update #1
First of all everyone has something about them that makes them beautiful. You just need to change your attitude. Even if you do believe you're ugly you don't have to show it. Confidence is the sexiest attribute someone can have. All you have to do is realize that you're a good person that deserves to be happy and loved and start acting like it! :) Best of luck.
2007-04-07 21:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
First off - I guarantee you if you gain some confidence you can definately get a man. I am sure no matter how you unattractive you feel you are - you are 10 times prettier. We as women are ridiculously hard on ourselves!!
So here is my advice - pick something that will boost your self confidence. For example - when I am having a low self esteem day - I wear something red and a little sexy. Instantly I feel sexier. Tell yourself you are beautiful and believe it! Nothing is sexier or more attractive than self confidence!! I am sure you are a beautiful and amazing woman! Don't let todays "ideals" of beauty leesen how you feel. I am sure you are fabulous and you just need to beleive it! Also, the second advice I can give you is to feel comfortable on your own. Learn to like who you are inside and out and any relationship you enter into will be SOO much more fulfilling.
Take Care!!!
2007-04-08 04:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by collegemdgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what. it doesn t matter what a girl looks like to me. what matters is that she has a truthfull heart.
i've had a billion chances to go out with "hot " girls, sometimes they will walk by and stare like animals, but i don't bother with them, because the y are sluts.
They must be in order to be so desperate for a man.
I admire women whom are caring. Who would snuggle for ever and care about my feelings , then instead of looking like a model. or slutty singer.
beauty is within your eye's. a long stare of love, is more sexier then anything in the world.
a passionate kiss is a turn on more so then all.
and a touch of hunger from a loving heart, is cherished forever.
my dear, remember, (and im not religious, ), remember physical bodies are just shells that we use to move around this planet to experience what we will to remember so we learn.
even the "hottest" person, grows old, and when they do, it is THEM that dread death and old age , more so then the one that didn t care about looks.
For the "hot" person, there life is over, yet for the people who cared more about spirit, they know life continues.
don't worry my dear, love exists.
myself, i am no longer with my ex-girl, and she was the first girl i had ever been with.
my heart hurts from her betrayal, and it is hard to trust in real love now a days.
i do not know if it is so easy to find .
it may be the question forever wondered.
2007-04-08 04:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step - you have to change the way you think about yourself! Second step - You may feel that you look ugly and fat - but every human-being has a quality or feature that stands out. for example you may have pretty eyes or nice hair. What you should do is... highlight that aspect of yourself. Do yourself up? Join a Self-grooming course! Third step - you admit that you are fat - do something about it - lose it! Fourth step - be positive in life and be grateful for the gift of Life!
2007-04-08 04:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by why me? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't paint you a pretty picture, I'll be staight and honest with you. I am guessing you are still young at age, and eventually you WILL find many of your peers who love your heart and personality and honesty (as long as you're honest with yourself) and in that group, there will be someone that clearly understands you more than anyone else does, and more than you probably ever expected. I know, because I went through it myself. Don't worry about catching yourself a hunk, if it happens, more power to you. But even the most "beautiful" guys and girls never end up with who they envisioned. I am a very happy person now because I accepted myself for myself and that's what people will like about you....TRUST ME
2007-04-08 04:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey dont down yourself like that. What you put out to the universe you are going to get back. Just know that there is somebody out there for everbody. The right guy will come once you pick yourself up. I know its easier said then done but try to. good luck
2007-04-08 04:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones ugly, but yes a guy would like you. Some guys would try to get with any girl that breathes. Don't worry, honey, there is going to be guy who thinks you're absolutely beautiful, even if you don't.
2007-04-08 04:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by lover of life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost all women hate the way they look. as for being over weight, there are men who like women of every weight. I like girls that have some weight on them, and knew a guy that was 6'2 and had 30' waist that would date a women taller then 5'2 or weight less then 230. No joke. when he first said this, I laught. but he wasn't joking.
2007-04-08 04:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are exaggerating when you say you are that ugly. Even if you are, I see handsome men with very ugly women all the time. Actually, sometimes I believe men like ugly women more than pretty women.
2007-04-08 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in the eye of the behlder....being fat is attractive to some men..have you ever heard of a BBW (big beautiful Women), besids....uts what is on the inside that matters...in the long run..bueinga good person is what everyone wants to be with...the real beauty comes through when you are loved and in love
2007-04-08 08:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by gmwnj11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋