Ok so I've known this girl for few months. she says she is lazy to talk on the phone, what does that mean? she is real good at texting and does it quite frequently to me. she is usually the one initiating all the conversations. but wont talk to me on the phone, why is this? signs of disinterest or what? doesnt seem she is shy, or is it fact she doesnt know how to talk on the phone with a guy she may like? any help would be great. on a side note, she goes to school out of state so maybe she likes me but realizes we cant become anything because this distance. thanks.
2007-04-07 21:01:44 · 7 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's just the way things are.. They love to text now! It is the new era man!
2007-04-07 21:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same way.
Talking on the phone distracts me from whats actually going on, I dont like getting stuck on the phone..people take it personally when they shouldnt.
She might be avoiding awkward silence, not knowing what to say because with texting you have time to think about it and react but on the phone if you sit there thinking it makes some people nervous and the end up saying something stupid or seem like they are losing interest... Some people just arent phone people.
She might be afraid you will lose interest.
Ohhh the possiblities.
2007-04-08 04:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by A P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably she gets tongue tied on the phone and has difficulty carrying on a spur of the moment conversation. Text messaging gives people time to think about what they want to say and avoid putting their foot in their mouth.
2007-04-08 04:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by z_o_r_r_o 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its easier to text message. maybe she feels weird of talking on the phone with you.. do you have a creepy voice? or maybe the long distance charges? how about call her one day and starting a coversation.. make sure it doenst die out.. then she would realize she is comfortable and would like to talk to you more often.. go for it
2007-04-08 04:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by i ♥ Food 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still okay isn't it ..she is still showing an interest ..
so why do you need to treat things negatively ..
2007-04-08 04:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really that starnge at all......i HATE talking on the phone, but i can text my girlfriend for hours!!!
2007-04-08 04:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your thinking about it to much. ask her. you aren't going to know for sure unless you ask her yourself and not a bunch of people who dont know her
2007-04-08 04:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋