My boyfriend really doesn't talk to me like a normal person. Instead he just plays mental games everytime i try to talk to him. Example would be a question i might ask him, instead of answering it he just repeats what i just asked. ( if that makes any sense) or says what are you talking about. The only time he every says anything to me is when he is looking for something that i might have put away or needs something. I swear this guy cant do things for himself. The everyday normal things that normal people do. Evertime I complain about him asking me to do something every five - ten minutes (literally)
He tells me that I am upset about stuff that didn't even happen. Like i halucinated it all. He starts fights by saying something hella nasty that just triggers my anger, but i warn him four or five times before I actually explode. I ask him nicely to stop/ for instance when we drive down the road he like to make dinosaurs sounds hella loud in my ear after i just told him i'm not feeling
2007-04-07 20:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by mail4jes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him, he has issues.
2007-04-07 20:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you got yourself an abuser. It doesnt matter if he isnt hitting you. Verbally and neglect is one of the worst abuse you can get from a person. I say you get yourself out of this relationship and allow time to heal. I would never assosiate with him again. Always remmeber how bad this person has h urt you and never return. If you return things will get better for a week and then you will get your feelings hurt again. You dont need this person in your life. There are plenty of wonderful man that want to share a real relationship with a woman. Dont settle for an abuser. Just do yourself a favor get out of it soon.
2007-04-08 04:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by pinkgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy or abusive. This guy you are with is definately abusive. He doesn't seem to respect you and he is definately playing games with you. This guy isn't worth all the anxiety. Call it quits and reclaim your time for yourself. Once you do, you will have a lot of time to dedicate to yourself instead of someone else. Being with someone should be fun. It sounds like the hassle outweighs the good times. Good luck.
2007-04-08 03:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you CRAZY and ABUSIVE but.... It sounds like he's CRAZY and ABUSIVE!!!
I don't know how you got hooked up with this guy but, he's just being weird by defending himself from simple questions you ask him... And makes dinosaurs sounds in the car? What a retard... But I guess you're just typing this up because you have nobody to tell how annoying this guy is and how stupid he may act and now, I guess you feel better telling the whole world what your boy friend is does it?
2007-04-08 03:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by A_Well_Dressed_Pickle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl, you need to just leave this guy, and find someone better. You don't deserve that kind of behaviour from anyone, especially your boyfriend. He needs to do a lot of growing up. He doesn't sound very mature.
Why do you allow this guy to treat you that way? I wouldn't waste any more time with him, as he seems to be just draining you, emotionally.
Just leave him...he's not worth the anger or frustration!
2007-04-08 03:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its abusive for him to make u feel your going crazy by saying " That never happend" or what not. though if u are exploding violetny your abusive too . mabye you two just bring out the worst in each other and need to sepreate.
2007-04-08 03:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg ur dating a retard dump him and find someone who doesnt act like a 5 year old
2007-04-08 03:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! MAN, THIS SHOULD GO DOWN TONIGHT ON THE FRONT LAWN!
2007-04-08 03:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by Masta P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋