How do I handle this..this guy I have been dating for about 3 or 4 months keeps telling me he loves me..I am only 14 but he is 16..I am not even sure I beleave in love yet? Somtimes its cute but I just wanna be a immature kiddo..haha..what do you sugjest..I don't want to hurt his feelings...
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2007-04-07 18:32:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah Nicole O'Byrne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 20 and turst me i havent even been in a long enough relationship where he got as far as love. ur young and he;s young. i doubt he knows what love is. i remember high school relationships its like u get wiht someone and he seems committed and then right off the back its over. go with ur gutt feeling ur still young. it might take u as far as college to discover love becuase thats when the commitment begins cuz thats when u look into your future. not now. enjoy high school dont commit if ur not rdy. and if u r....becareful from what i have expierenced wiht guys...they all want one thing! =/
2007-04-15 18:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by huh? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a kid.
I know you must have heard this like, 50,000,000 times but when you are 40, you will be glad you have your kid memories.
Lots of time to be a adult. See some of thise 14, 15 year old mothers or those who have had abortions and let them tell you how they wished they had it ove rto do again.
It is YOUR life - take everyday as a gift and love being where you are!
God Bless You!
2007-04-15 20:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by USA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH! You should just not worry about love and what someone can say to you, but you should only worry about your education and how you can get into Harvard. ; ) life isn't all about these things and you should be 14 and not 24 or 34 just be young have fun and dump the serious stuff! I promise you'll have lots of time for that.
2007-04-15 23:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you be what you want to be.
Any guy who tells you that he loves you this early and this often is desperate for love...with anyone. You are smart and shouldn't trust his words at this point in your life.
A 16 year old boy only has one thing on his mind, and it's not love. Keep being smart and you will be happy.
2007-04-08 01:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will tell you whatever they think you want to hear. He may just want to get in your pants.
You have the right idea have fun and don't get tied down.
Tell him you're not ready to be in love yet. I'm sure he doesn't know what love is either.
What he has is raging hormones and maybe infatuation.
2007-04-16 00:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Wilhelmina F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surround yourself with your girl friends more and not pay as much attention to him as you would normally. Let him take the hint that you may not have the same interest in him as he does with you. It is a subtle way of having him back off.
2007-04-16 00:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by yourguessisasgoodasyours 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure he loves you right now but believe me he'll change .boys don't mature like girls they will have more ex girl friend then you'll have boyfriends .at that age there not in it for keeps there in it for bragging right .you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders try to wait until you know and understand what love is. he knows your young and think you'll fall for it
2007-04-15 23:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF You feel you wanna be a kid.... BE A KID...let him know that you feel "things are just too serious" and that you think you might wanna be single..If that's the case. It's not impossible for him to love you at that age...BUT...feed your desire...especially at your age. Dont rush yourself (you might regret it)
2007-04-08 01:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kaylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young enjoy life now don't rush into anything with anyone, you will know when the right person shows up.
2007-04-15 22:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Toni K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD hurt his feelings. BECAUSE things may go to far .AND its best you stop now. DO be a kid have fun.
2007-04-08 01:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋