I am 19 and have a boyfriend of 4 weeks. He lives about an hr from me. I dont get to see him that much bc he works all the time. But I do know that I miss him so much and I dont know why. I mean we have only been together for 4 weeks but I like him a lot. Whenever I dont get to talk to him and when I cant see him i get all sad and depressed and just feel like crying. I dont understand why I miss him so much. I told him that when I see him again I am gonna give him the biggest hug cuz I miss him so much. We have both been hurt a lot. I promised to never hurt him cuz I really do like him. We trust each other and everything. We have not kissed yet. I want to be able to see him next weekend but I dont know if I should say anything cuz I dont know if he has to work. Does anyone know why I would be missing him so much??
ps. i use the computer for communication cuz I am deaf.
please no rude comments.
2007-04-07 18:00:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me like your falling in love...ask him if its ok to see him and he'll tell you. good luck hon.
2007-04-07 18:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you feel this sense of urgency because you met someone you really, really like, and you'd love to share so much with him and talk face to face. I don't want to overstep my boundaries and hope you don't take it this way, but my ex-sister-in-law is deaf, and from what I had learned over the years is that you rely much more on your other senses than hearing people, so it must be very hard to not be able to see him, because you do rely more on sight, smell, and touch. I know, you can use the video relay via the computer (do you?) but that still leaves out a lot...I wish you all the best, about this weekend, try to pick up on clues, or just ask if he is working before asking if he has time, you know what I mean?
2007-04-07 18:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a long distance relationship, even though its an hour away, can be tough. Remember this is a new relationship, the feelings are new and the expectations are high. I am not saying he will not come through with them but that's why you miss him so much, when its new you can't get enough of each other and the fact that your unable to see him that much just intensifies all the emotions. But as long as there is trust and you two are communicating while apart, there should be nothing to worry about.
2007-04-07 18:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by 3whiskerbiscuits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is normal to miss someone u care about,however i dont know how normal it is to be depressed and crying about it .when u miss him think about the times u shared together and make plans WITH him about the next time.Dont be sad,have u never heard the expression abscense makes the heart grow fonder? and why are u afraid to ask him what his plans are for the weekend? people who want to see each other normally ask this.,is it because u are not sure how he feels about u? well ask him about the weekend and you will find out what his plans are and if he is interested in u.While you cannot be together, find other things to do,do not sit around waiting for him.u say u use the computer why dont u e-mail each other at times when u really want to hear from him?
2007-04-07 18:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your love drunk....... (chemical reaction in the brain)
When you see him next time you should just give him a nice long kiss followed by a hug. Or just a really long hug and whisper...oh wait do a really big sigh when your hugging him. Just show him you really miss him. Just ask him what he is working. Let him know your free time also.
Just wondering.... How do you guys talk does he know sign language? Can you read lips? Do you have something there with you? (I knew a deaf chic and she seemed nice but I didn't know how the communication thing would work out. So I didn't bother to ask her out.)
2007-04-07 18:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Vin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was your age I really thought I would die if I didn't see my boyfriend.My insides would hurt and I would lay on my bed and cry if he couldn't see me that night.It's your age hon,nothing more.Your young and your body is telling you something .Your emotions are so strong at your age,and when you meet someone you just no he is the one you want to spend your life with until the next one comes along.No one will or could convince you of this now not with the way you are feeling towards your boyfriend.Women all over the world is going through what you are right now and they will live through it just like we all have .Not saying it is easy because it isn't. You will go against your mother your father for this boy and others after him because you no he is the one and only.I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you. 20or30 years from now you might be doing what I'm doing right now trying to help someone who does not understand his or her feelings they have about someone.The older you get the more clearer your emotions gets at lease it does for me.
2007-04-07 18:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems like how i was b4 wit ma bf.....when ma bf and i were together for only 6 weeks we hardly saw eachother becuz he also lived an hr away 4rm me. den as da months went by we started to not see eachother more n more...i got to c him once every 2 months if i was lucky. i knew i was in love wit him 4rm da moment i talked 2 him. ur missing him becuz u actually found someone u feel very comfortable and attached to him, that is how i felt when i never saw him. now i c him 4 times a week so things do get better. i hope i helped u.
2007-04-07 18:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You miss him a lot because you like him.Just ask him if he's working next weekend and if you can see each other.If you don't ask you won't know.
When you do see him give him that great big hug you promised and tell him you missed him a lot. But........it's only been 4 wks. so don't rush into anything.Get to be good friends first.
Good Luck.
2007-04-07 18:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sniff.. sniff. Its a touchy love story.
Lady.. your view on "LOVE" is fantasy.
2 things u can do .. "get married, so that he stay sticky to you"
otherwise do some productive work and stop wasting time.
Dun disappoint your folks, do something proud for them like missionaries or something can happen or what. Waiting for many X'mas hugs for ur loverboy won't make u 2 lovey dovey birds. GOD deliver us a good home and should cherish every moments of living "fruitful", not trash. Our education won't bring us a stop 'cos of LOVE. Move on.
(Note: Sorry, I broke ur heart. But for a better of matter change. I need to do on behalf ur folks) Cheers
2007-04-07 19:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by amichubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never. you have lost touch with somebody whom you widespread and who's agency replaced into considered needed to you - it fairly is merely organic to grieve and that i think of that's what you're experiencing.
2016-10-21 08:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may be falling for him. Keep in contact with him and continue to e-mail him.
2007-04-07 18:06:23 · answer #11 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋