What little clues can i do ( or leave behind) to tell the girl that he is cheating on her. But i don't want him to know that i am the one busting on him.
2007-04-07 17:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by ladyred_redlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good for you, but only if you leave him as well.
Send her a typed note to her home. Ask her if she knows where her man was on a day you all went out, say you saw something interesting and want her to know about something, but you do not want to get involved. sign it, " a friend" . You might want to mention she may need to get tested for STDs ( as well as yourself) since he seems to be such a player.
Be prepared that he might find out it was you. You got a big pile of Karma waiting to hit you up side the head.
2007-04-07 18:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by dedum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick question? Are you the one that is cheating with this guy? If the answer is yes, just stop cheating and move on. Don't play these games and don't be "that girl." If you think you should break them up because you want to be with him, this is really an immature way to do so. Why would you want to be with him anyway? He'll probably do the same to you.
And if you just know that a guy is cheating on some girl --why do you feel the need to tell? If it is a friend, then I can see why you would want to. Can you actually approach the guy and tell him that he better fess up or you will?
2007-04-07 18:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by January 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you really have no right to avoid your lumps in this. You slept with a man that was taken. Now, I'm guessing that you want to break them up so you can have him. You are pathetic, you are trying to gain everything an lose nothing. Instead you are going to crush this woman, and leave the guy wondering how she found out.
At least have the courage to face the music if you're going to do something like this. Eventually he's going to find out, and if you're still with him, it won't be pretty. Better yet, dust off that conscience and tell her up front that you have been sleeping with her man and you're really sorry, but it's over now. And make it be over. Find your own man, they are out there.
2007-04-07 18:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to force him to leave her, so he will be with you? Honey, if he is cheating on her with you, he is going to cheat on you with someone else. Find someone that isn't such a loser.
And chances are that if you bust him, he'll find out that it is you. It would be very hard to hide that fact.
2007-04-07 18:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u screw around that is a chance u take! why should u care if he finds out? he is the one who is in the wrong.the girl has the right to know,wouldnt u? just tell the girl and let the chips lie where they may.
2007-04-07 18:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me her phone number and I will call her and tell her.
Hey, she probably already knows and
a.) doesnt care
b.) doesnt know what to do
c.) wishes she had a friend to talk to about it.
If she doesnt know,
a.) tell him you are going to tell her
b.) tell her
c.) let her find out herself.
There is no easy way or assured outcome other than tears, loss of trust,and maybe loss of friendship.
2007-04-07 18:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by da old man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are the one that he cheating iwth, then it does not matter
what you say. . neither one of you care about the fact that he
with someone else. and if you are not the person then it
really none of your concern. to tell her anything.
2007-04-07 18:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you tell her, there's going to be a chance he'll find out. Sorry.
2007-04-07 18:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is stupid, busting him will get you busted.
2007-04-07 18:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Searching for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋