I've never set out to intentionally hurt another person, but I know that that doesn't make it ok that I have hurt someone very close to me, not physically, but emotionally. Because I lied to this person while I was ridiculously drunk, he went through 11 hours or more on a search for me in another state, at homeless shelters, police stations, alleys...etc., and all of this because I was a drunk lier wanting attention. I've been drunk before and know that I turn into this horrible creature, but I've never done anything this heartless and hurtful before, I hate myself and know now that I can never touch alcohol again. I don't know how I could have worried him and hurt him so much. He thought that maybe I could be dead. It was horrible what I did. I made him think that I was suicidal and that is an unforgivable act. Can you please give an honest answer and tell me something you've done that you regret the most and feel guilty for. I feel so alone in my pain and need forgiveness.
2007-04-07 17:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by peaceseeker 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
my dad was totally upset wid me coz i dint get gud grades that term.the next day i went 2 my frends bday party n came home late.he shouted himself hoarse abt me not being concerned abt my future n stuff like that.i shouted back tht i hated him n went away.d next day i felt really unhappy bt i dint have the courage 2 say sorry 4 being so rude.thngs got only worse.he was so hurt that he stopped talking 2 me.
in d end i made him a choclate cake n wrote 'im sorry' on it
he was totally gr8 n forgave me
2007-04-07 18:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I found out my then husband, (Ex now), was cheating on me with a hood rat. I could not believe he would hurt our family like that. we had been together since high school, had two children supported him in truck driver school, etc. I told him I wish he would die. and now, He is near death because he has serious health issues, He does not have any.\kidneys now. his transplant did not work and he has been on dialysis for months. i had beat myself up for a long time. I do hope that you find inner peace. as long s you are sincerely regretful god will sincerely forgive you. We are imperfect humans and we do sin, intentionally and unintentionally.
2007-04-07 18:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by KinWin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may desire to be a protracted time earlier you may forgive your self, probably longer than it takes him or absolutely everyone else to forgive you. What a puzzling lesson to check and a awful thank you to could desire to check it, yet you have found out something approximately your self that for the duration of common terms some people could ever confess to. you're showing some tremendously extreme capability. you recognize you may desire to stay faraway from temper-changing ingredients. it is step #a million. an exceedingly solid place to start. study to maintain respecting your self in this way and you will do nice. all of us make errors that acquire painful outcomes. it truly is the repetition of the comparable errors that creates our "hell". And NO act is unforgiveable if the reason to suited the behaviour remains authentic and you're taking the precautions to sidestep extra desirable harm. I ... sense for you. I betrayed somebody who enjoyed me. I stay with that discomfort primary yet have additionally found out that hating myself for it hurts absolutely everyone around me. That know-how and next actuality has helped immensely in the healing technique. All of those gruesome truths approximately ourselves is what makes us extra appropriate people in the long-term. It provides us the potential to extra appropriate comprehend others. it truly is the stuff compassion is created from. i've got self belief you're lots more suitable than you supply your self credit for. it truly is uncomplicated for me to assert "I forgive you" and attempt to make you sense extra appropriate. yet you don't recognize me. It potential not something. you will paintings it out. after which you would be there for the subsequent you that comes alongside on your existence and recognize precisely what it truly is all approximately.
2016-10-02 08:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by barksdale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you realized that you made a mistake.
What you have to do now is become more catious with what you do.
The person you speak of seems as if he really cares for you and you need to make that person know that you appreciate the love.
People make mistakes, Idiots dont learn from them.
2007-04-07 17:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Romeo C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i got my bf locked up for over a year and i will never be able to forgive myself for hurting the only person i truly love and truly loves me but he forgave what helped me was watching the movie the secret on peekvid
2007-04-07 18:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah control your drinking and forgive yourself. Only when you forgive yourself is when things get better and you can move on from this situation.
2007-04-07 18:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by southwest_mountain_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is a guy he should be able to suck it up and realize that it was a joke and not to take u too seriously especially if u get drunk all the time
2007-04-07 18:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by nkahuntr 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't need to be alone in your pain. Turn to Christ. He loves you and will forgive you.
2007-04-07 17:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
yes stay away from the booze
2007-04-07 17:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋