many adults and all of my friends tell me how pretty i am but in school none of the guys notice me. everyone tells me it;s because i'm so shy. I don;t want to send the message that i'm not interested in guys. How can i let them know i;m interested?
2007-04-07 15:14:41 · 10 answers · asked by 0x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you have to do is look at them and smile.
They'll come up to YOU after that.
Always remain feminine and interested in what ever they say. Just keeping smiling and answer their questions.
It works like a charm.
2007-04-07 15:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, im a S.Korean Hottie that has sorta similar problem as you. I also get complimented by many adults and friends Except lots of gals do notice me in school =)
I am to also shy, so im sorta in the same situation as you. What you should do is be yourself, if thats hard to do.
Then you should smile and say hi back to guys(particulary the ones you like) Try not to go for jerks =/
Such as when you see a guy in the hallway or someone walkin by just say a little hello with a smile to show them you have some interest. This would let hopefully hint them. =)
Other things you can do is compliment them on something or admire them, (try not to say something that would make things akward)
Srry this is the only thing i can think of right now so
HAVE GOOD CONFIDENCE~~ thats hotz =)
2007-04-07 22:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by =HIO= 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me on this one, I've been through it all, and it wasn't pretty. My family also used to tell me that I was really pretty, and some of my friends did, but I was really self-conscious. I started to realize that I was self-conscious, because I didn't look like the people on the magazines tht I would read, and I started to not care whether I was "oh so skinny" or "perfect" like all the models.
The key is to be happy with yourself. If you feel happy with yourself, people will notice, and it really gets you noticed.
The second I stopped worrying, and stopped being shy, the guys began to turn their heads in my direction, and I am now dating a guy I absolutely ADORE, and have been for over a year.
JUST BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF! trust me.
2007-04-07 22:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Alexxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in da same dilemma!!!! I started to get to know some of the guys and one of them turned out to like me. I was surprised, and I fixed myself up a bit.
2007-04-07 22:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Know-It-All or Nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself ! please the world is full up with far to many imposters and when someone meet them it takes so much time if ever to peel away all the mask some folks wear....just to get them to feel okay in there own skin!
2007-04-07 22:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by mema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your Real Feelings Speak Up And you will be thankful
2007-04-07 22:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bubbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take off all of your clothes, I guarantee you will be irresistible to all of the guys.
2007-04-07 22:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt.
(touch them, talk to them alot, ask for their opinion on the way you look)
I do this and I get anyone I want.
Good Luck.
2007-04-07 22:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by shared account. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should be irrisistable to you first. Guys like self-assured women...
2007-04-07 22:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by poopiesmom101203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be promiscuous but talk more.
2007-04-07 22:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by morobell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋