What do you do when you are dating someone and the physical connection of it is going way faster than the emotional connection. What if you want to stop doing so many physical things but you do not know how to tell him this?
2007-04-07 14:04:02 · 15 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if the physical part is going way to fast tell him. Let him know that you want to be in the realationship is going to fast for you. If you dont it will continue until you feel raped or robbed of innocence. And do it sooner than later because if it goes on to long the guy will think he can get what he wants and he might be upset if you dont let him know. If this is truly a good realationship he will understand and slow things down.
2007-04-07 14:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Aden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 00:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is being pushy and condescending then you can easily handle that by not showing any weakness or susceptibility to his tactics; just carry yourself with confidence and guide him toward the pace you want him to go. You have to do it in a way that communicates yes, you can get what you want but only when I'm ready. Thus allowing him to feel like your not using/toying with him. If you are referring to sex then you need to understand that it's not a porn video. Sex is spontaneous and when it's controlled it is very boring; almost like doing a job rather then having fun. So the answer to that is if you can't handle spontaneity then don't engage. However If you'd like him to last longer in bed then get him to release first then rouse him up again and change position every 10 to 15 seconds.
2016-04-01 02:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be strait with them and if they really like you then they will understand. You certainly do not want to be in a relationship that is all physical. A woman needs that emotional connection.
2007-04-07 14:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by lovnlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the physical thing is taking too fast it is lust that is taking over and not love. You have to put a stop to what is not going right. Being open with what you feel is the key.
2007-04-07 14:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Reycen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always the word stop. S-T-O-P.
Calm your partner down and talk to him about it. He's probably going along with it because he thinks you're okay with it. Let him know how you feel and if he's gonna be a sourpuss about it, that lets you know what he's in the relationship for. But, if he's willing to take it slow, good for you.
2007-04-07 14:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by tunrayo_tijani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Lindsey you are in control! Never lose sight of this fact
If he starts doing things you don't want then just say no!
And MEAN IT!
Let him know....if he has any respect for you or feelings towards you he will if he dosen't well kick him in the nuts! that will slow down his urges for the night!
2007-04-07 14:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hang out, try some outdoor activities. If you are alone at home or in private, it is much easier to go physical. So go out and have fun!
2007-04-07 14:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to put on the breaks. Just tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he gets upset that you didn't mind before, just explain that it happened so fast you didn't really know what to do. If he's still upset and gets demanding at that point, then he's probably just thinking with his dick.
2007-04-07 14:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find a way to tell him...if you can't communicate with someone why are you with them? If you can be intimate (to any degree) then you should be able to tell them how you feel.
Put on the brakes, before you are stuck with regrets.
2007-04-07 14:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋