I am 18 yrs.I have choosen not to date yet. But why is it men hardly ever approach me? Is it because I'm shy.Don't get me wrong I'm NOT conceited. But blest with great beauty.Sometimes I wonder if I wasn't,would more guys speak to me?
2007-04-07 13:50:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally was never afraid of beautiful women. At least not until I got married.
I used to take great delight in simply having a conversation with some hot babe. I knew she wouldn't be interested in me, or was likely taken, but just talking to her made me feel better. And let's face it, to a casual observer, I might have actually looked like I was her boyfriend. Even just for a second.
But, once I got married I felt guilty about talking to a beautiful woman. I started to need a real reason, so that it wasn't just so that I could talk to her.
So, some guys might be intimidated by you, and others might be intimidated by their girlfriends. But I'm sure you'll have no shortage to guys talking to you. At 18, a lot of guys can barely speak to any girl, so give it a few years.
Oh, and thanks for giving me a reason to talk to a beautiful girl one more time. ;)
2007-04-07 13:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some are, Some arent. It depends on the personality of the man and his experiences with beautiful women. Some men dont even give a damn and have an outgoing personality and can approach and make small talk with even the most beautiful women. The shy ones you might have to give some signals to to bring them out of their shell. But for the most part I dont think a lot of men have a problem talking to a beautiful woman. Though some do.
Im suprised they dont approach you, Blessed with great beauty id say youd have maybe at least 25 percent of the ones who are giving you looks approaching you and the rest just watching or wondering.
Shy men are the ones intimidated by beautiful women. The other ones are glad to give a compliment or admire the woman.
If you have great beauty men will be intrigued. Men will be curious. Some might just look and smile, Some may take the initiative and speak to you and some may try their hardest. Its all about their personality and your approachability. Even the not so good looking men im friendly to. Good looking, not good looking, dosent matter. I treat all with respect and thank them.
Id also like to add its about how you carry yourself as well. If you walk around with a scowl on your face and your eyes down and look depressed then you probably wont have as many men approaching you as if you were to walk with confidence and being in an easy going mood. People can sense these things.
BEAUTY IS POWER. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-04-07 13:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by henry 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's different with all men and women, but this is just what happens sometimes. When a guy comes across a really attractive women, they might be intimidated because they feel you're "more powerful" or something of that sort..
When women are just average-looking, they aren't afraid to go up and talk to them.
Just don't wait for them to speak to you, go talk to them. Have a conversation, and they'll feel more comfortable around you.
2007-04-07 13:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sure of yourself huh?
Blessed with great beauty? Who says so?Your family and friends?
Maybe guys dont approach you because they can sense the conceit and fear the high maintenance costs.
Maybe you are not as beautiful as you seem to think.
Maybe you have mass quantities of body odor.
Men want beautiful women.Be self defeating to be afraid of them too.
Me,I am an old man. Rusted out Yugo body but a Lamborghini engine and a Bentley soul.
Send me your pic and I will tell you if you were really blessed with great beauty.
Maybe your just cute.
Try being a beautiful person first, and thats all inside.
You can wrap crap in shiny packages but its still crap.
Put a Yugo engine in a Bentley body and all you have is a crappy Bentley.Reverse the scenario and you have a great Yugo.
2007-04-07 14:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some may be intimidation but equal to that I think twig had it right with the high maintenance. When I was single I would pass on talking to some very attractive ladies because the ones I had dated were just to high maintenance. With many of the guys I knew that was the case. If you were not looking for a relationship then it was ok to pick up a beautiful women but if you were looking for a relationship they are just way to much trouble. Find a average to good looking lady with a good personality and you are way better off.
2016-03-17 21:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is often the case. A beautiful woman is often in a dilemma as men would readily assume that she is already taken and therefore would not want to waste their time not knowing that the lady is roasting away.
Some men even when they get to know that you are not taken would be afraid of the challenges that might ensue because in this part of the world, we believe that a very beautiful woman is not for one man alone and no man wants to share his lady.
2007-04-07 14:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by comradechris 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men have not approached you because they are intimidated by your beauty and they may think that you are a very aggressive kind of girl that let's men down when they want to know you better. Smile sometimes when men walk your way or just say "How are you doing?". Those type of things work to have men communicate easily.
2007-04-07 13:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are cautious to approach beautiful women for fear of being rejected. What you have to do is to be nice to any guy who approach you. If you happen to like a guy perhaps a friendly smile will give the cue. Open up a good conversation with any guy you think you are attracted to and that will break the ice.
2007-04-07 13:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Reycen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may feel that you are 'out of their league' and fear the rejection they assume you'll give...Problem is, since truly beautiful girls are often NOT approached by guys, those girls can become very shy or uncomfortable around guys, reinforcing this cycle.. Because the girl is shy, she doesn't approach the guys and they guys assume this is because she is too good for them... My suggestion to you is to always have a warm smile on your face and go out of your way to express an interest in others...
2007-04-07 14:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some guys will shy away from the really pretty girls because experience has taught them they are harder to get. I personally will never ask a very attractive girl out because of that reason. I feel a real pretty girl will leave me for a hotter guy.
I have had very attractive girls flirt with me,I had no idea why they were interested in me, I am not that attractive and I am short. I turned them down because of my own self doubt.
2007-04-07 14:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋