What do you do if you think your boyfriend is cheating on?

Question

What do you do if you think your boyfriend is cheating on you? What if he doesnt admit to it? How do you find out without him finding out?

Answer 1

well thats what happens when you don't satisfy him........you want to find out than call the tv show Cheaters. hope to see you on there soon.

Answer 2

Talk to him friendly... let him believe that nothing will happen if he told you the truth. Let him know you love him and that you will forgive if he made a mistake (even though is not true haha)... tell him too that if he wanna be with someone else you and him can remain friends (even though that is not true either)... He will tell you the truth.
Caution... maybe you are wrong and you can hurt his feelings...although woman have sixth sense and if you think he is cheating is because of something. Follow him... or send someone to keep an eye on him... someone he doesn't knows...

Answer 3

Ever since being 16yrs old (47 now), it would drive me to great lengths to discover proof if I suspected cheating. Having been my first boyfriend, at 16, he was cheating on me, behind my back for over a year before I found out. That scared me for life. My first marriage, the same scenario, and he even invited her (future 2nd wife) into my home. He told me she was a co-worker, and does hair on the side and was doing him a favor by coming over to cut his hair!
When I finally suspected cheating I would go to great lengths to find proof such as phone bill, check mileage on vehicle, check the Internet in the cookies for proof of singles sites, go thru all of his belongings to find phone numbers..... it would literally drive me almost insane to not come up with any evidence, when I felt it, I knew it....it was true.

Answer 4

You can tell by obvious signs of him that shows he's cheating, like avoiding you often, not spending much time with you, barely talks to you anymore, and basically acts like he's not even your bf. Ask him if he's cheating on you, if you still think he doesnt tell you the truth, just break up with him. Its not going to help in the relationship if you keep on thinking he's cheating on you. Trust your instincts, they're usually right.

Answer 5

II would love to help you but I want to know why u think that your boyfriend is cheating on you. can u be more specific sometimes when u tell a third party who doesnt know the both of you - the picture can be quite clear...thank god this is all anonymous

Answer 6

Do you both have the same criteria for 'cheating'???

He may be cheating on you but not view it that way. Why not talk to him and make sure you two have the same definition; then find out if he's willing to abide by your definition.

If he's not. just wait a few days and then dump him.

Answer 7

First of all you need to talk to him about it. True it might hurt him if he really isn't but you need to know for certain. See if he makes eye contact... you might be able to tell if you lock eyes for a little bit. Then if you can't tell then do some sneaking on your own. Ask around maybe somebody has seen something suspisciouis. Maybe it's nothing and your just being paranoid.

Answer 8

do what i did put a mp3 recorder under the front seat of the car. put a good lithium battery in it to get the most hours recording. mine was about six.
do all this right before he is about to leave. make sure it doesnt have any beeping sounds when it runs flat or anything like that. do a test run.

Answer 9

Then you are not really in a true relationship. You cannot get out of something you never had. Think of it as if you are just playing around like in a movie script but really acting.

Answer 10

You have to ask him and trust that he will tell you the truth. Prying around his things won't do any good. If you have to do that then you know he's cheating. Confront him about it.