Got her number last night, how long should i wait to call her and ask her out on a date? She is 22 and i am 36.
2007-04-07 08:18:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would call her tonight.
2007-04-07 08:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by ItsScriptural 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait til tomorrow, or actually preferably Monday now. I'm no ladies man but I have had my share of luck. Perhaps more importantly, I have an extremely beautiful 23 year old sister. She is gorgeous and guys are dating her, always asking for dates. According to her, she says if you call too soon, she gets worried and thinks it shows a certain desperation. If you wait 5 days or close to a week, then it shows you are not that "interested." So, my advice is give it 2 to 3 days. This shows you are very interested but that you are also "your own man" and have other pursuits in your life aside from the romantic ones. In other words, you are not sitting by the phone wanting to call her immediately but you still show you're very interested.
2007-04-07 08:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by jrunner44 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thing to ask yourself at 36 is why are you after a 22 year old and not like at least a 30 year old?...I mean, how much do you REALLY think you would have in common with a 22 year old?...14 years is sort of an age gap...Just a question...
2007-04-07 08:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, she probably knows why you asked for her number in the first place? Why wait at all since she was willing to give the number to you?
And age doesn't matter when it comes to wondering how soon to call...just call when you feel like it.
Remember, the longer you wait, the harder it will be for her to think you're seriously interested. If you were, you would have called right away....
Now, go dial that number!!!
2007-04-07 08:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to date a 22 year old at your age? And if your 36 and still haven't figured out your game, maybe you should be dating a 22 year old. Grow up!
2007-04-07 08:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Rairia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 days
2007-04-07 08:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by hj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok , lame o. lol.
think about it are you that not busy and just have trillions of dollars sitting around?
do you want to call her?
think about what you want and do it?
love yourself enough to say it s ok to be you.
call be upfront tell her what you want.
if she wants that youll get it.
if not go out and get everygirls number soo your are soo busy with it you dont have to worry about it.
i got alot of numbers before. it didnt amount to much. women just like the attention of givin out thier number.
most people under 30 arent serious about anything. me i take care of me.
i eat what i like i tan every now and then i drive what i like i fix want i want i take care of me and if she fits into schedule and we can make it work then great!!!!!!!!!! but if you both arent willing to workat it it wont work.
your question is just like wow. dont call for a year and she get the number changed.
well i might scare her off or she might think this or that. dude you cant change her or controll her and nothing in life is perfsct. perfect.
take a chance , call after 11. if she really likes you you could call after 230am and she d still talk to you. think about it buddy.
2007-04-07 08:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by babyherc1r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it 2 or 3 days
2007-04-07 08:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by UNITool 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She gave you her number so she is interested. Just call her. You say you're 36 so stop playing those silly games and just go for it.
2007-04-07 08:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by binemaeuschen22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's see... If you have to wonder how long you need to wait, then maybe you shouldn't call at all. Dude, you got her phone number. That was an open door. Use it.
2007-04-07 08:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by general.veers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 days.
2007-04-07 08:21:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋