How do I ask a girl out if she is more popular than me? We go to the same church and we both are nice to eachother. And if not her, how do I ask another girl out who has rejected me before? - Drew
2007-04-07 04:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by drwb2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no particular way to ask out a girl who is popular vs unpopular. You simply ask them...she's just another person, no matter how popular.
As for the girl who rejected you, let that be your answer. If she's changed her mind you'll get signs of interest and then may decide to try again...if you aren't getting signals then leave that one alone. Why set yourself up for probable rejection again, by the same person?
2007-04-07 04:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter if she is more popular then you, if she is as nice as you say, she will at least be willing to listen and talk to you about it. How long have you known her? If not long, then i would give it some more time. strike up a conversation with her. When you and her look at one another, smile at her. If you really like her, don't rush it. If you are scared of being rejected infront of people, get her to herself, and then tell her how you feel. Or you could take the safe approach and ask her out for coffee. If you do find out she is not interested, don't act like a mocho jerk, just say ok and smile and leave it at that. Later, she just my see what she let get away.
And if a girl has shot you down in the past, and is now interested, then i say ask her out by all means. But if you are trying to win the affections of someone who has already turned you down and you don't think they are interested ,don't. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Repeating history can lead to a broken heart and can even make you feel like a fool. But don't give up trying. You will win the heart of some lucky lady when the time is right. Good Luck
2007-04-07 12:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by lblr3133 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, rejection hurts. If you were rejected once by a girl, why would you ask her out again??? Don't. The only way you know if the popular girl will go out with you is to get up enough nerve and ask her. You never know until you try. Why ponder on it? Why worry about it?? Just do it. If she doesn't like you then you can pursue other options.
2007-04-07 11:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by operationspiritlift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should probably try to get to know her better before jumping into dating. Hang out with her after church and talk about the service or about school. Once you become her friend, it will be easier to ask her out. Same thing with the other girl. As a girl myself, I would be much more likely to go out with someone I got to know as a friend than some guy aquantance that was less popular than me!!
2007-04-07 12:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by califrniateach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Church Girl: Try to get a friendship giong, but don't let it get to where she is your best friend and going out would be really akward. Get to know here and if you feel like the relationship is right, ask her out.
Other Girl: If she rejected you befor, it will happen again. there has to be a reasin, there aslways is. You can try to ask her out, but don't get your hopes up unless you have drastically changed since the first time!
2007-04-07 12:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by u_wish_214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice ain't anough. You gotta find out whether she's interested in you before asking her out. If not, you risk humiliation. And as for the second girl, try asking her again when she's in a better mood or when she shows more signs of being interested in you. If her body language towards you clearly spells out that she's not interested, lose this babe before your heart gets more broken.
2007-04-07 12:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by thatsoundssowrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
Just do it!! go up to her and ask. what is the worst thing that could happen? think of something funny to say to start off the conversation. then get to a point where you 2 start laughing then drop the bomb on her. say something that would be sweet first.
hope it helps!
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-04-07 12:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lexi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ask a girl for a date. What's so hard about that?
2007-04-07 12:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply ask her 2 ve a simulating conversation wid her on a cup of someting
2007-04-07 12:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by Rockd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just ask her out
first you have to get to know each other and becaome lik her best friend then ask her outt
2007-04-07 12:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋