2007-04-07 04:37:36 · 19 answers · asked by artinabroadus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It happends to the best of us. You will be fine.
2007-04-07 04:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think every bride gets jitters before her wedding. Let's face it; planning a wedding is wonderful, but exhausting! Try to get some rest and put it all into perspective. It really is only natural, unless you're having serious reservations. I doubt that is the case, judging by your question. I remember being anxious about all the details.....will they reset the space properly for the reception? will the candles all burn into the evening? will my dress zip? will the caterer break the bank? [and I was just the mother of the bride} The bride, in fact, snuggled up to me, on her last night at home, and slept like a baby while my mind whirled with all the details!! You have a whole month to put on the finishing touches. Enjoy the process. Happy wedding. Happy life.
2007-04-07 04:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes I worry about brides who are not nervous at all. I wonder if they are taking it seriously enough. But for most, yes it is totally normal. Most brides are more nervous about the performance aspect of getting married rather than the reality of being married. If you know in your heart that you want to be with this man forever then it's all good. I know it doesn't make standing up there in front of everyone that you know any less stressful but remembering that they are there because they love you might help! And remember any little thing that goes wrong, is an ice breaker, the ring never slides right on.... so sometimes marriage takes a little work! You will be fine.
April
2007-04-07 05:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by bountifiles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jitters, or second thoughts? I'm sure it's just nerves and that is so normal....just relax and enjoy this time in your life.
If you are having second thoughts, what is the reason? Do you love him? Has he cheated? What? I think everyone second guesses if they are doing the right thing.....I remember walking down the isle thinking what in the heck am I doing?? Now, 29 years later I still have days that make me think I should have turned around :) But I also have days that are just wondeful.
Good luck to you and live happy!
2007-04-07 12:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by oklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a big step to take, I even got jitters on the morning of my second marriage even though I knew/know he's the one. You've been going through planning, haggling with family, stress, you name it. If you look inside yourself and can still say he's the one, no regrets, then you'll be fine on wedding day.
Congrats, and best wishes!
2007-04-07 07:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love, he is in love with you, and your families are happy about this, congratulations! The jitters are normal...!
BUT....If you know things aren't like they should be, the jitters are a way of making you think things over....GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-07 04:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by Nena S 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
More than likely getting butterflies in your tummy... i guess it would be normal...
After all those months of planning the biggest day of your life (well so to speak! lol), you are hoping that everything goes to plan..!!
I'm sure it will be fine... maybe its time to go to a spa with you, your maid of honor and mum (or those that helped you) and enjoy relaxing, talking things through with them, have a nice meal and big glass of wine.. and unwind...
Good luck, im sure it will fine!! Have a great day!
2007-04-07 05:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The closer the wedding gets for everybody who gets married the move nervous they get. Do not worry because you will be just fine.
2007-04-07 06:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completely and absolutely normal. Understand that you are making a big decision in your life.
However, make sure you are enjoying every bit of this moment in your life because it will (hopefully) just happen once. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy this amazing time in your life.
Success!
2007-04-07 07:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to everyone. its normal. if you werent getting the jitters i would have to say something was wrong.
2007-04-07 07:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by shannon_shea2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jitters mean you are in love! :)
2007-04-07 10:32:41 · answer #11 · answered by luscious_pineapple19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋