Need advice from those who have bipolar.?

Question

I would appreciate to know how to deal or react with someone who is bipolar whenever he is not in a good mood.

Should we stop talking to that person?

Answer 1

Yes, In a way.. dealing with someone who has bipolar when they are exhibiting anger.. is similar to someone who is drunk.. it is smart to try and detach from their mood at the time.. go do something else.. you are not the solution.. dont try to rationalize with them... that is the worst thing that you can do... it will make them angier and you more frustrated.. they need to seek a solution medically.. but for your sake it is best to not become an enabler to their mood swings... you can separate yourself when it gets moody and let them know that you cant be a part of it when he is like that.. sometimes silence or a lack of reaction is stronger than any argument...

Answer 2

I have bipolar disorder. Most people think that the manic part of bipolar means a person is major happy and silly and hyper. Sometimes the manic cycle leaves a person iritable and rageful.

I can't explain the iritability. I'm not actually angry AT anyone, but I feel frustrated, my mind has so many thoughts at one time that I can't keep them straight and almost any stimulation frustrates me to no end, and I lash out at the stimulation--even if it's someone I love.

Ask that person when they're in a rational state how to help them. I'm sure they're just as upset by upsetting you as you are by him/her. I know I was, and I was afraid to tell my loved ones that I didn't want to be around them because I knew how hard they were trying to help me and I didn't want them to think I didn't appreciate it.

Finally my boyfriend asked me what was best for me and it came as such a relief. I admitted there were times I really needed to be alone for their sake as well as mine. I reassure them I'll be back as soon as I can sort my thoughts, and they reassure me they love me... and will still be there.

I dont know your friend or how they manage their illness, but asking them how they want to be handled during their tough times might help a lot. :)

Take care and good luck!

Answer 3

Yes.

People can be a drain on our energy. If someone is ill, limit the amount of time that you spend with them. Let them know that you are there for them if they need anything.

People sometimes using "bad mood" to mean different things. I never tolerate someone's bad behaviour if they are in a bad mood. Being bipolar is not an excuse to treat the rest of us badly.

Answer 4

Here is the exact thing you want. It's great information.
(just substitute for the word "spouse" whatever this person is to you)
http://www.healthyplace.com/communities/bipolar/related/support_7.asp

Here is some help written by professionals with input from bipolar people.
http://www.healthyplace.com/communities/bipolar/mihalas/index.asp

The "Manic Depression Primer" is also great.
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Bipolar/Mihalas/bipolar_disorder_depression_2.asp

Answer 5

I would say just remind that person that you are there for them and if they need to talk that they can call or come by and see you. Make sure you do check up on them, even if you just leave a message on their voicmail. When they are ready to talk, they will come to you.

Answer 6

Just lay low for the time being. Maybe Patty Duke's book will help:
http://www.officialpattyduke.com/home.htm

Answer 7

Tell the person how much you love them: however, when they go to walk away kick them in the ***.

Answer 8

Depression Anxiety , pannic attacks, and no you should me more close to that person he or she should need you more than you thing