Let's get this out into the open. Men, clear it up for women and women, clear it up for men plz? :)?

Question

I am gay, and when I am not hearing about how correct it is to be heterosexual, I am hearing of all the complaints str8 women have with men and str8 men have with women. I am seeing questions all over yahoo answers with str8 girls asking why r guys such jerks or why cant guys be nice, are there any nice guys left out there, and str8 men not being able to figure out women. Now, just because I'm gay doesn't mean I want to only help out gay people, I want to help out heterosexual people figure out the opposite sex and what is wrong. So str8 men, could you answer the following 4 questions I frequently see from women: 1. Why do guys care so much about sex more than anything else? Is there anything else you could do romantically 2. Why is it so hard for men to commit to a serious relationship 3. Why do guys think they have it harder when we have to give birth and be pregnant. Couple questions from the guys for the girls, 1. why not more sex 2. why not more sex 3. why not more sex?

Answer 1

1) Men's sex drive comes from nature, we don't have complete control over it and sure can't control the desire. Please stop asking us to not want it so much, that just can't be done. Fact is women should be happy that men want sex with them, not the other way around. On top of that, it feels damn good.

2) Men can commit to serious relationships, they just want to with the right person. Problem is women have too much drama in their lives, most are just jacked up. Do they really want us to ask them to get married if we are not sure about them? Sounds kind of stupid when put that way doesn't it?

3) Men have it harder since they have to put up with emotional, non logical, indecisive and flighty women. There is no rhyme or reason in what they want or will do next. You can't make them happy if you don't know what makes them happy. They expect you to read their minds, what is up with that? What is the big deal about being pregnant and giving birth? Putting up with women while they go through that is way harder.

Anything else you would like to know?

Answer 2

Well partner as the world turns not all men are the same. Like you said some or gay some aren't. SOme would like to get into a commitment but some are scared of it. Some just want sex from a woman and then break her heart and some men are are humble and want to wait for the right time. I am this man but the questions you have to ask th ewomen is this. 1) Why do you chose a guy who you know that has broken lots of girls hearts than an aveage guy who likes you more? 2) Why do you make excuse for a guy when he abuses you and you leave him then you go back and are in love with him? 3) Why do you always think the worse of all men when it is only the fault of a few? And the last one Why knowing that a guy will never change you will try to change him? SOrry one more WHy do you believe everything that comes out of a man's mouth and when the deed is done he will tell you well it's not mine?

Answer 3

Well for a start Sex isn`t top of my list, 2nd. when I answer a question (whatever your personal feelings are as regards gender is not my concern) I have an open mind,in other words I would still answer the question whether you were Bi,Hetro,Gay,Lesbian or whatever all that interests me is the Question & how best to answer it to the best of my ability .As regards we have it harder than women, er? I don`t know where that came from but,I am sure most fellas will agree Women have a hard time when they are pregnant & things sometimes get heated between couples but the outcome is at the end of the day they will be proud parents of a healthy human being we hope.I don`t find it difficult to commit to a serious relationship it`s when the woman concerned deceives that I question that part.There is a distinct difference between Love & Sex & although you may think we think of it all the time some of us don`t.

Answer 4

im a straight guy
q.1 i care about other things more than sex such as making people(friends/family) happy. a sensual massage is a nice romantic thing to do.
q.2because most men want to wait an see if there is anything better out there for them.
q.3 because we have to live with the risk of getting kicked in the balls and also worry about the size/shape of our
equipment also not being able to rise to the occasion. also we have to put up with the illogical female logic

i have 1 question. why are you only directing the questions at men and not a woman OK you.....put why not more sex..... but why no real questions

Answer 5

1. Why do guys care so much about sex more than anything else? Is there anything else you could do romantically

Because guys are much more visually stimulated than girls. We see eye candy and we get excited. Also because we're programmed to want to pass on our genes to ask many children as possible (if you believe in evolution, that is).

2. Why is it so hard for men to commit to a serious relationship

It's different for different guys. For me, there's nothing more rewarding than being in a committed serious relationship. It's just different for different people. I'd also say that evolution could help explain this one, too.

3. Why do guys think they have it harder when we have to give birth and be pregnant.

Because we're expected to initiate everything and provide and sacrifice. We've got to be solid as a rock and not show emotion. And support the whole family without asking for support or showing weakness ourselves. I'm not saying that guys have it harder, I'm just explaining where that mentality comes from.

Answer 6

1. that is partially true, alot depends if the guy really cares about the girl or not. 2.Previous relationships that may have gone down the hole in a blaze of fire. 3. We dont 4. why not?

Answer 7

You are wrong, look at Jesus’ words in John 10:30, “I and the Father are one.” We need only to look at the Jews’ reaction to His statement to know He was claiming to be God. They tried to stone Him for this very reason. “… you, a mere man, claim to be God” (John 10:33). The Jews understood exactly what Jesus was claiming—deity. Notice that Jesus does not deny His claim to be God. When Jesus declared, “I and the Father are one” (John 10:30), He was saying that He and the Father are of one nature and essence. John 8:58 is another example. Jesus declared, “I tell you the truth, before Abraham was born, I am!” The response of the Jews who heard this statement was to take up stones to kill Him for blasphemy, as the Mosaic Law commanded them to do (Leviticus 24:15). John reiterates the concept of Jesus’ deity: “the Word was God” and “the Word became flesh” (John 1:1, 14). These verses clearly indicate that Jesus is God in the flesh. Acts 20:28 tells us, “Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood.” Who bought the church—the church of God—with His own blood? Jesus Christ. Acts 20:28 declares that God purchased His church with His own blood. Therefore, Jesus is God! Thomas the disciple declared concerning Jesus, “My Lord and my God” (John 20:28). Jesus does not correct him. Titus 2:13 encourages us to wait for the coming of our God and Savior, Jesus Christ (see also 2 Peter 1:1). In Hebrews 1:8, the Father declares of Jesus, “But about the Son He says, ’Your throne, O God, will last forever and ever, and righteousness will be the scepter of your kingdom.’” The Father refers to Jesus as “O God” indicating that Jesus is indeed God. In Revelation, an angel instructed the apostle John to only worship God (Revelation 19:10). Several times in Scripture Jesus receives worship (Matthew 2:11, 14:33, 28:9, 17; Luke 24:52; John 9:38). He never rebukes people for worshiping Him. If Jesus were not God, He would have told people to not worship Him, just as the angel in Revelation did. There are many other verses and passages of Scripture that argue for Jesus’ deity. The most important reason that Jesus has to be God is that if He is not God, His death would not have been sufficient to pay the penalty for the sins of the world (1 John 2:2). A created being, which Jesus would be if He were not God, could not pay the infinite penalty required for sin against an infinite God. Only God could pay such an infinite penalty. Only God could take on the sins of the world (2 Corinthians 5:21), die, and be resurrected, proving His victory over sin and death.

Answer 8

Yeh, right, let's work out the solution to all life's mysteries right here and now. You're a sham. You wouldn't understand these things any way. Heterosexuality is the only logical way and NO, I'm not homophobic, simply logical. Life is complicated and so are people. Doesn't that make sense?

Answer 9

Well, there r alot of non contented ppl around in this world. Therefore they will keep asking till te day when they r satisfy. Tat's modern life.

Answer 10

been this way from the beginning of time females and males and their differences but somehow if it's true love it will all work out.