How can i get better at sex?

Question

Heres the thing. Me and my girlfriend are 17 and just recently started haveing sex. For me its ok, and her she says its not really anything. She says its getting better but i dont know. Any tips or ideas for me.. Please. And plase dont reply to me saying im to young. thank youuu

Answer 1

Improving sexual technique is mostly learned "on the job" (no pun intended). The main thing is to have good communication with your partner, so she can tell you what she likes and doesn't like and basically, do more of the stuff she likes, and less of the stuff she doesn't. :) Oh, and she doesn't have to use words... a lot of other sounds give away what she thinks of whatever you're doing.

Another factor is your girlfriend's age. Women often don't get much out of sex when they're young, but do enjoy sex more and more, with a sexual peak at about 30 years of age, when they enjoy sex most. Men just like sex, full stop. Your girlfriend will enjoy sex more as she gets older, even if you don't change a thing. :)

I disagree with the previous poster - watching porn is *not* a good way to improve sexual technique. While there are lots of interesting positions in porm movies, the women are paid to pretend they're enjoying it, and the men tend to just jump straight in - with not a lot of foreplay, nor a lot of technique. If you practice, considerately and attentively, with your partner, you'll soon be able to critique porn stars and probably offer them a lot of advice. ;D

Answer 2

Here are my two suggestions:
1. Most men ejaculate before their partner has a chance to achieve an orgasm. Remember that she is learning too. Even if your girlfriend has had an orgasm through masturbation before, she will need practice achieving an orgasm through intercourse. It may take her a lot longer at first to reach an orgasm while having sex than it does when she is stimulating herself. That means that you need to be able to stay erect for a while so that she can figure out what she needs to make sex fun for her. You can read the following wikipedia article for help with learning to control ejaculation. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_ejaculation#Treatment

2. Another problem is that men are often all thrust and no finesse. Most women orgasm due to clitoral stimulation not vaginal. The vagina has very little feeling past the opening. The sole function of the clitoris is sexual pleasure. It is similar to the head of your penis. That is where stimulation needs to take place in order for your girlfriend to reach an orgasm. The clitoris is located outside and above the vaginal opening. Once you are able to control your ejaculation, try this. While in the missionary position (you on top), instead of thrusting in and out try rotating around and around counter-clockwise. The whole time try to maintain moderate pressure between hers and your pubic bone. This will stimulate her clitoris and may help sex feel better for your girlfriend.
Another position to try would be to let her be on top, but lying down. Again, no crazy thrusting, you will be able to do that later when she has more control over her own orgasm. Encourage her to try to make herself climax. She could try doing the reverse of what you did in the missionary position. Rotating around clockwise while maintaining pressure.

Remember, remind her that it feels good for you too when she is enjoying it and that her enjoyment is important to you.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Practice makes perfect

Answer 4

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Answer 5

let her be the star of the show and ask her to show you what makes her climax it takes time to find out what your partner really likes and theres no need to rush you both have plenty of time to explore each other

Answer 6

watch "the 40 year old vergin", i havent seen it, but i've herd that he has to learn to become better at sex, and that theres tips throught the whole movie.

Answer 7

u got to learn from watching porn...dats it..but dude,safe sex is smart sex,dont be tempted by the girl to not wear the condom..ur lyf wil be a living hell if you dont..and ur age?..almost 18,so good enough..Ü