She acts so bitchhy and cold but expects me to treat her nice and crap. Last night she asked me to let her in emotional and I told her cuz she wont do the same then she tells me shes not going to let me in cuz all I'm going to do is leave her. I mean this chick treats me like a stranger but yet doesnt like it when I give her a taste of what shes giving out. What is her deal? Is it wrong to want to drop kick her in the face?
2007-04-06 19:51:22 · 13 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.LMAO.
.Yeah it is...but you can't help how you feel.
.Maybe you should just completely quit talking to her....you did say she was your ex.
2007-04-06 19:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by SarinaAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right that his actions with his ex are extremely INAPPROPRIATE!!!! IF he truly loves you and respects you, he wouldn't be trying to spend so much time with or talk to this woman. He wouldn't be asking her for pictures like that and wouldn't be trying to meet up with her and carrying on conversation with her the way he does. Sometimes ultimatums don't work; I would recommend sitting down and explaining to him exactly where you are coming from and the strain that it's having on your relationship and your trust. Stress the fact that you love him and only him and would never carry on with another man the way that he does with her. Be careful not to point the finger at him, but instead try a role reversal of how he would feel if you were doing the same and felt the same about another man. Let him know that you wouldn't want him to diminish friendships with anyone but the type of "friendship" that they have is too intimate on more levels than it should be. Give him a chance to let it sink in, but if he carries on the way he is with her...you and him will never have a trustworthy and solid relationship. His actions will slowly eat at you until you can't take it anymore.
2016-05-19 02:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships make us want to do that sometimes. Just don't take action of that sort. Break up, have an honest discussion (perhaps in the therapists office,) or take a short break. Know that what ever you think, it is not necessary to take that action, with regards to violence, that is.
It sounds like your girlfriend may be insecure, and needs your reassurance that you care about her. There may also be things going on with her that she doesn't understand. Life can indeed be difficult. Try to be understanding. If that doesn't work, let her know how she is confusing you, and see if the two of you can work out what's behind your challenges. If not, perhaps it's time for this relationship to end. Good luck.
2007-04-06 20:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong to want to, just dont do it, then youll go to jail and shell be a bigger pain, wierd!! shes insecure, tell her to spend some time alone until she grows a backbone. Shes gotta bring something to the relationship or it wont work.
2007-04-06 19:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like she wants you back but is trying to make it so that you are the one chasing after her. i do admit your title to this question made me laugh, but naw, i wouldn't conclude in drop kicking her at this time. girls act that way and really, even being one, i dont know why.
2007-04-06 19:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. If you kick her in the face, you will then be in the wrong.
2007-04-06 19:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DROP KICK HER with ordinary shoes....
drop kick er with cleats! much better!
2007-04-06 19:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by krusty477 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no. Taking a running start and let her have it.
2007-04-06 19:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by soulintent 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
its wrong to do that...but not wrong to think that.
dumped that piece of shait...
get someone better
2007-04-06 19:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Stiles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wrong?
nah, it sounds fun
2007-04-06 19:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by metal_rader 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋