He is my best friend. He knows that i like him and recently hes been flirting more than usual. So i confronted him about it and this is what he said
“So i do like you, as friend, just times much more, and recently it has been more. And i kind of want things to happen, but at the same time i don’t.
the reasons i do want to is because you are truely an amazing person, no matter what you do, or say to me, i cant get mad at you. at the thought of us being together at one point in our life times, makes me happy, and i really enjoy the thoughts.
but on the other hand, i like what we have, i wouldnt trade it for the world. sometimes i just wonder if i would ever hurt you too much, if i would ever cause you too much. i dont like to see you hurt, expecially if it because of me.”
And i dont know where to go from here. Should i take that as a rejection and move on. Or is it worth waiting for and holding on?
I really care about him and he still flirts as much as he did before.
2007-04-06 19:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by Nic W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the longest lasting love relationships started out as friendships. The change of going from just friends to something more is a big risk, but is usually worth the effort.
If you have feelings for him (more than friendship) learn to express these to him as openly and honestly as you can. This includes actions and not just words.
He will then need to make a choice. Either to start expressing the feelings he has for you or to tell you to stop. He has to understand that you are worth the risk he might take.
2007-04-06 23:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
my husband is my best friend. married 22 years and proud of it.
2007-04-07 12:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Terri L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.......r ...u ..a ...guy......................if not i would say.....u should maby start flirting with him it may be the begging of 2 new LOVERS
2007-04-07 09:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋