OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say HI to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". But while we were at the movies, I kinda felt disrespected cuz he didn’t open any doors for me, he didn’t walk me to my door & he talked about stupid stuff the whole time. Did he not find me attractive anymore? When we were dating he always said how I beautiful I was.
2007-04-06 18:23:57 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why did he treat me like that? Also, since that meeting, he has only said hi to me twice on msn. I feel like my self-esteem has lowered, I keep thinking that he treated me that way at the movies cuz he thinks I’m not pretty enough. BTW, he’s not that great, he’s short w/ a beer belly but he has such high standards. People, esp. guys always hit on me & tell me I’m pretty but still I wish he could just appreciate me. Am I ugly & is that why he did that & is that why he hasn’t really contacted me since the movie outing? Why did he wanna hangout sometimes and now he doesn't even conact me that much?
2007-04-06 18:24:28 · update #1
I would guess he wanted to go on that date because he was thinking "maybe I should look into that again." But, here's the bad news, his behaviour on the date suggests he did not change his mind about wanting to be your boyfriend again. But here is the good news, it's very likely that he still finds you beautiful and attractive. He cannot tell you that, because if he did you'd be upset that he led you on.
2007-04-06 18:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by strozek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you as a person...but, he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you..at all!
Just start doing your own things..and get involved with another person for a change...he isn't the guy that wants to be with you...I had an ex- boyfriend come to visit me...it was nice..but, first he was married..and visiting his old area, and later he was divorced,,,but he wasn't coming back to BE with me...we are just friends..and that was all there was to it!
I think that he just likes you only as a friend..and nothing more...besides,, you aren't together any more...time for you to get on with your life...not be moping over him...
I also learned that hard lesson with another boyfriend...finally got thru the painful stuff...but, sometimes you have to learn these things..even when it hurts!
Also, I think personally ,that it would be soo cool if you were to get really involved(when you are ready to) with another person..and you don't need that ex anymore..that you show him how strong you are,and how much you have changed...because sometimes that is what they also look at as well, mine did!
2007-04-06 18:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just checking up on you especially after what happened with your previous ex. But I wouldn't go to the Coffee thing if he invited you on your own. It's the equivalent of "Hey I still like you".
2016-05-19 01:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, you poor thing.Don't worry about him at all. You shouldn't care entirely on his opinion of you.You are beautiful. I don't believe that anyone is ugly.You just might not be attracted to them.But, somewhere out there is someone who thinks they are gorgeous.Be encouraged and don't think yourself otherwise.Move on to someone else.
2007-04-06 18:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by angel9242004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooooooh, me thinketh he's regretting the break up now.
He is getting nervous but is not certain if u still like him.
Drop sum hints and he mite come round.
2007-04-06 18:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by gecko the brave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is missing you and that's the reason he took you out.He isman and doesn't want to look needy. He will contact you soon. just be cool and don't ask him to many questions.
2007-04-06 18:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like I said he just wants to be friends maybe
2007-04-06 18:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hE,S JUST A LOW LIFE LOOKING FOR A PEICE OF *** !!
2007-04-06 18:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋