I've been with her for 3 years and she hurt me really bad....Here is the Story: I'm a Senior in high school and I ride the school bus so she kept constantly playin with me insistin on me 2 stay with her. so i had no choice but 2 cause the bus was already gone. Well I was up at the school for about 4 to 5 hours and she made me walk home. and its a pretty long walk. and it made me feel lyke she dn't even kare about me also because she was lettin this guy touch on her and i told him 2 stop and he did then when i turn my back. she was still standing beside him and tellin him 2 stop. In my head i'm thinkin she wants to be touched by him if she is still standin next to him? I honestly think she doesn't kare what should I do.
Your opinion is appreciated
Please no haters or negativity
---SeXiTomBoI
nicolenadams@hotmail.com
2007-04-06 18:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by hotttlikeeefirrrrrre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks Everyone For Your Answers! But now she is tellin her friends it is my fault that we are separated she was cryin and apologizing.
2007-04-06 18:41:14 · update #1
It is hard to know what she is thinking, and why she made you walk all that way home, and why she did not move away from that guy...
I agree with you, it does not look good.
Really you are the only one who can judge what really went on, trust your "feelings" on this. If you think things aren't right, they probably aren't right.
People hurt people they care about, then promise not to do it again, say it was a mistake etc. When a person keeps on making the same "mistake" again it is time to go.
Tell your friend you are not happy, give her another chance, but I'd say you need to be prepared to let her go.
2007-04-06 18:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by bluemountainsbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's letting some other guy touch her, and that's setting alarm bells off in you're head, then she's not worth the trouble. She's treating you pretty poorly and you know it. When you have a negative feeling about a relationship, it's better to back out. You're only young and you'll find someone else who will treat you, and themselves, with respect in the future. Why tie yourself down to something or someone that causes you emotional pain? If you're feeling this badly now, what will it be like in the future?
Good luck.
2007-04-06 18:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing with you. Stop letting her control you. I'm sorry but it sounds as if she doesn't like you, but likes to control and play with your feelings. Yes, she wants the other guy to touch her. That should tell you all you need to know. Letting her make you miss the bus makes her lose respect for you because you don't stand up to her. Show some backbone and stand up to her. Don't let her do this to you. Once you do that, she will learn to respect you and might even like you. Right now, she does not like you.
2007-04-06 18:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i'm completely honest, I've done that before. Most likely you need to step up your game. 3 years is a long time and sometimes she may feel that she's "missing out" on something better. Remind her that she has more than just feelings for you but someone who can touch her just as good as someone else could.
2007-04-06 18:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're right... why would she still be standing next to him if she didn't like it. It sounds to me like she's trying to deliberately hurt your feelings. If I truely cared about at guy... I definately wouldn't be doing those things. The truth hurts.... but you don't deserve to be treated like that. Good luck!
2007-04-06 18:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~Crystal~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that this girl of yours is a little immature it sounds like she only asked him to stop after you caught them am i reading that right? Maybe you need to sit down and ask her straight up if she still wants to be with you she may be trying to make you mad so you will break up with her but you will not know until you voice your opinion and concerns to her, but honestly it sounds like you deserve better!
2007-04-06 18:26:42 · answer #6 · answered by police_chick86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has the nerve to go and do that, u should have already left her. in my eyes she doesn't care. and since u are nice enough to give her another chance, i think you deserve better! But good luck which ever way you decide to go!
2007-04-06 18:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by GoPy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds likes its time to move on.
2007-04-06 18:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Brian D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to drink more water
2007-04-06 18:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by green_roi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋