Suicide thoughts?

Question

Its been a while since these thoughts have come back to me. I already know what I should do to get these thoughts out of my mind. but I'm having these thoughts alot lately and its all because of a girl I once had a crush on and now me and her are not even friends anymore. And I've seen her lately and I've got back into my depressed state. So what I'm asking is. has anybody ever heard of suicide pacts? I don't know but isn't that here two or more people make a agreement and they try and look for ways to help kill each other? If so I think that is very interesting. I would do that. And my another question. What is the most painless way to commit suicide? For me I think a gun shot to the head would be best. but I was thinking that you could live through something like that. That would suck. And another question I have is when plaining for a suicide is it good to have a certain day of the month to do it? Or is that just a waste of time?

I've already tried to commit suicide before over this girl. (twice)

I've been going to counseling for this also.

Answer 1

look ive done alot of stupid things i regret of in the past, i have tried to commit suicide because i felt alone and and other things i cant really talk about but dont tell me that you want to kill urself or want someboby else to try to kill you because thats just stupid, and all because of a girl, im sure that u will find someone else who loves you, and that u love back, i dont know why but u just made me start crying and i dont even know u, think about all those people that do know u how r they going to feel, all ur family and friends all those people who care about u, u cant just leave them, im sorry but something is wrong with u i know that, that is not the things u want to hear right now and im nobody to judge u but ur stupid if u do that, i know ur going through a hard time right now but trust me life gets better, mine did and im so happy that i never commited suicide, and i didnt have to go to a psychologist or anything so im really proud of myself, im sure the same thing could happen with you because its not worth doing that for a girl that you just had a crush on you didnt even love her i really dont understand you, but neways ur life is not that bad for u to want to kill yourself other people r going trough more difficult times and instead of wasting ur time trying to figure out how ur going to kill yourself you should be trying to help those other people who really have it bad, well i guess thats all i have to say just think about it twice ok. cuz after u do that theres no coming back

Answer 2

Guns have a kick. Often, they blow your face off when you're trying to blow your brains out. Running your car in the garage (or with a hose leading the exhaust into the car) is the way to go if you're dead set on suicide, no pun intended.
Suicide pacts end badly, usually with someone wimping out and the other going to prison for murder.
Sounds to me like you need to get laid. You had a crush on a girl and you're suicidal thoughts went away. If that's all that's depressing you, you're better off than most. Find another girl, there's lots of them.
Everyone has suicidal thoughts. I don't mean to sound preachy, but suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. In others words, whatever is depressing you now probably won't be in a year. I've contemplated it dozens of time, came damn close too, but never went through with it. Every time, about 6 months later, I wind up saying to myself, "what the hell was I thinking?"
Long story short, don't do it.

Answer 3

You're worth so much more than you know, please let someone close to you know how you are feeling. Life and relationships can be depressing and overwhelming, but they also can be wonderful. You have to get through the bad to appreciate the good. Remember that this too shall pass, and harming yourself or someone else will not be the answer, as I'm sure you already know. No matter how bleak it looks now, it will get better. There will be other girls, new relationships, and happiness. I'm a stranger, i know nothing of you, but I care enough about you to write you this, to plead you to not hurt yourself. If i care this much imagine how the people around you care... Best wishes, i wish you the best in life, remember that everything will get better

Answer 4

Please please seek help whether it is from you minister, a dr or just a good friend. Nobody is worth killing yourself over.and think of everyone else that loves you, your family,your friends, your parents,grandparents, brothers, sisters. Your pain and misery that you are feeling at that moment may be gone but you leave behind a family that says "Where did we go wrong?" They will be always asking why, They will be caring with them the rest of their lives the guilt of not seeing you hurt and not being able to stop you. Do you think that the girl you had a crush on is going to is going to really care if you are gone? She may for a while but after time goes on you will be just a memory and her life will go on happy and fulfilled while yours is gone.
Suggestion>>>>>>First thing to do is call the Suicide hotline. They are trained to help you deal with depression or actually you can email me back and we can chat online if you would like.Remember there are other "fish in the sea" but there is only one you.....and you are a wonderful person.

Answer 5

Okay..You need to understand that a crush is just a crush. You will one day meet some one that is far better then the person that you are stressing over. It will never do you any justice to kill yourself over any one. It doesn't matter who they are. You are loved by many people. Why would you want to think about doing this to yourself? And if you think that for some reason you don't care about yourself, think of all of your friends and famiy that will be in great pain if you go through with this. And if any idiots really respond back to you and say that they want a suicide pact with you..turn the other way..it's the sign of the devil trying to bring you down because he knows that you have great accoplishments ahead in your life. God loves you..in return he will bless you with a wonderful woman who loves you in return..You need to be strong and think positve. The world needs you!

Answer 6

OK, you need help. Your life is more important than some crush who isn't paying attention to you. Talk to someone, like at the suicide hotline. Also, it's easy to screw up a suicide, especially with a gun -- the nursing homes are full of people who are drooling and can't change their own diapers because they botched a suicide. If you need to do something, go visit the VA home and talk to soldiers, or donate blood, or find a kid to mentor. Just do something with your life, and find someone professional to talk to!

Answer 7

why do you want to die when there's many things to live for. Your family, friends, God. I mean girls come and go. Do you think she will be hurt if you kill yourself? No. She'll be sad for a little while and then go on living her life. I can't imagine what you would do if you went out with her, and she broke up with you. Do you worship her or something? are you a stalker? you really need to speak to a psychiatrist because you have a mental disorder. Good luck and God Bless! It's not worth it!!!!!

Answer 8

Never contemplate suicide...not even planning a day of the month...especially not in jest...professional counselors and psychologists are trained to take such discussion seriously...

Yes, I have heard of such pacts, and no they are not usually successful..once one is killed the other backs out...only to be convicted of murder...

Painless....I doubt it...what if you miss and only severely injure yourself? That would suck, wouldn't it? better to not think of such things and seek professional help...

Answer 9

PLEASE do not commit suicide. You deserve better than that. No person on this earth is worth killing yourself for even though love and depression can be and are very painful. Please seek help immediately. You can always call 1-800-SUICIDE and there is always someone to talk to you anonymously.

Answer 10

I've tried to commit suicide before, and am not in the best mental state myself... before you do anything, please feel free to im me and talk, i know what its like 2 feel suicidal and can listen without judging 4 as long as u need.
please just think about it.