Before you give me your answer. TAKE NOTE IM 15! yet im deeply in love with this girl who's 14. We've mentioned masturbation here and there and she kinda gets the hint that i think of her when masturbating. But when i actually do masturbate i think of her! it feels very guilty and i feel like a sicko. but i am wondering if this is normal specially at this age? Do you guys do the samething? PLease help.
thank you very much for your answers. =]
2007-04-06 17:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by rottenapple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont feel guilty, its normal! We're all human and its a part of life. Thats more common than u think!
2007-04-06 17:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is it right to think about deflowering her at 14?
Is this why you feel guilty?
Maybe you should continue the man to hand relationship until you and your girl are a little older...like she's 18 and stuff.
2007-04-07 13:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Paul B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you feeling guilt or shame? Guilt is when you feel sorry for someone you have hurt. Shame is when you know that you are doing something you shouldn't and feel bad that people do not like you doing this. You asked us and not your girl, so I think you are feeling shame. If you are really feeling guilt then it is because you think you are hurting your girl. If that is the case then you must talk to her about this and try to make sure if you are hurting her or you are not. Masterbation is individual, and thus is only hurting yourself if it is hurting anyone else. Letting her know about it thus brings it out of this individual and seekret place, and thus can lead to pain for her and others. If you choose to let her know you must know that you have to be willing to change if it is of harm to her.
2007-04-06 17:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt matter how old you are. Congrats to you for masturbating, rather than having sex at your age. There is nothing wrong with masturbating, nor should you feel guilty !!
2007-04-06 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by dumdum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! young people and the aging do this. You are to young you can not take care of a girl. Your hormones are controlling your mind. It is better to do this than touch the young 14 year old and get her pregnant or something.
2007-04-06 17:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. No need to feel wierd or guilty. What exactly could you feel guilty about?
2007-04-06 17:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by Republican on Dope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal since everyone is going through puberty at your age. =] Masturbate on your own time, it's neither right or wrong.
2007-04-06 17:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rights or wrongs here......as long as it stays in your mind. And this is way too much information to tell anyone.
Yes you are normal
2007-04-06 17:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose everyone has some type of image. wouldnt actually be right to be thinking of baking a cake or doing the gardening while doing so...unless thats a sexual turn on. lol
2007-04-06 17:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say it is right or not... but what you feel when you do that?! You said that you felt very guilty after do that so why you don't stop that?!
2007-04-06 17:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋