my bf nd i hangout all the time on weekend beause we both have school in the week. we usually end up doing what i want to do, watch movies, go shopping, go out to eat...but he agrees to whatever i mention. so he has been complaning that we never do what he wants to do so today i let him decied. we went downtown shopping because he wanted to look at stuff. while at a store a spoted ashirt i wanted nd decided to buy it on my creit card(ihave a 50$limit a month) nd the shirt was 30. while shopping he found a pair of jeans that he liked, nd i told him id buy then for him. they we 40 nd i had 40 cash on me. but then he was like i dont like how they button so he decied not to get them. now after 5 hours and after spending 70$ today on food and other stuff... he gets mad at me saying it was gf day once again nd that theres never bf days. i want t make it up to him, but i dnt understand what im doing wrong. help?
2007-04-06 16:20:24 · 13 answers · asked by pink529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he wants some "loving" aka wants to get laid
2007-04-06 16:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by i ♥ Food 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm......he doesn't sound high maitenance or anything, so i guess just do a little more for him. even little things count. Maybe offer to go where he wants to go a little more often. im sure u can pull it off. I mean i dont think its very fair for him to say that if he agrees, but also its not easy to say NO! in a girls face. especially your girlfriend. dont stress it, just work with him. good luck! :)
2007-04-06 23:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u dont know what u want to do but whatever u deside to do is really good
he is probabaly thinking that u end up buying and doing what u want to do instead of him
bring him to a game or something fun
2007-04-06 23:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was his choice to go shopping which you need to remind him of. Second swap days so you both get a share of bf and gf days. each of you need to write down in advance of your date what you want to do and depending on his choice it is follow that and have fun
2007-04-06 23:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you don't understand. What you did was turn his day into yours. Not a smart move on your part, but then reading what you wrote I can understand.
A boyfriend day doesn't include you, if you keep this up you will drive him away.
2007-04-06 23:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means that too many of your days in your weekends.
But he means that he just didn't get the stuff he wanted because of your spending limit.
2007-04-06 23:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by GuN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun, don't make it up to him... tell him that is where you wanted to go and what you wanted to do. Don't let him put you on a guilt trip. You are doing nothing wrong.
2007-04-06 23:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let him take charge. Let him decide on what to do and don't try to focus on yourself too much. That's the only thing you can do.
2007-04-06 23:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing I ever did for my boyfriend was buy him season tix for him and I to our fav. college football team....doing guy stuff is more fun than shopping!! you will learn that quickly!
2007-04-06 23:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by cdani425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump and release him and go fishing sounds like a dud!
2007-04-06 23:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way too passive. You spent all this money on him and he is mad at you, and instead of saying, "HEY, DIPWEED, I BOUGHT YOU ALL THIS CRAP." you say "ohh, i am so sorry." Stand up for your self. HE just wants to control you
2007-04-06 23:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by Rick J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋