2007-04-06 12:04:11 · 8 answers · asked by wiser 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this but its true, put God first and your hubby will be trueblue !
2007-04-06 12:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
These men had lives before you, they can't change that, even some of the gay men I know have had kids by 40.
What would even constitute a success story, or advice?
You could, I suppose, drop the fact that you hate rugrats into the conversation fairly early, or that you hate the competition kids bring to a relationship, or even that you think that you are too much of a diva to share his money with a kid.
That ought to clear the room of the daddies, and a few others too.
2007-04-06 12:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say water seeks it's own level in dating and marriage
to that extent you have total control of who you date, yet you claim you are weary of dating such men
yet you keep dating them
you are part ofthe 51% of all women ( of dating age ) who are single, and part of the 51% of all men / and women who are single as well, and part of bigger more than 50% group who are divorced ( and thus single ), so you are naturally going to meet more single fathers than single men ( and in your age bracket most single men have allready hooked up with someone 6 years younger on average ), so finding single eligible 34 year old will be a tough market for you, eithet go up or down by 6 years to see what you can find.
2007-04-06 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to date who you like. If you don't like that situation then don't get in it. There is nothing wrong with that. My opinion is that having kids in your 30 is normal you are the rare find. I don't blame people because they were fortunate enough to find someone to have kids with and I haven't. There is a catch, I only date women who have had kids by a husband. The ex-husband must be a part of the child's life. If the kid was conceived out of wed lock or the ex is in prison or something like that. I'm not interested.
2007-04-06 12:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not date men with children! Too much baby mama drama!
I married a man with children. At the time I did not have any children. The relationship has been nothing but drama with the baby mama! Every time I want something the children need something!
If you do not have children--I would not reccommend this!
2007-04-06 12:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi. the only thing about dating someone with kids is if there kids are around they act different, well i think so. I am seeing this man who has two kids and we get along great and have a wonderful time together but when we go and get his kids he acts different i think. and i have noticed other people that is the same way.
2007-04-06 12:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by sexy24244 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just stop dating men with children? Seems simple to me.
There are plenty of men without children at your age, or men with children old enough that it wouldn't make much difference. Men have the same problem, however it's much worse.
2007-04-06 12:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you just need to be up front and ask a potential date if he has any kids or not.
Rather simple.
2007-04-06 12:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋