How do I talk to him?

Question

Ok, there's this guy at my church who I think might like me. He always makes a point to say "hello" to me and have a conversation of some kind. Me? I might like him, too. How do I talk to him without getting too nervous? I also have a problem with this kind of thing, because I end up flirting by accident. HELP ME!!! Thank you!

Answer 1

okay, one thing is, that to guys, when a girl makes the move, its a plus. Especially if you like him.

Before you talk to him take a deep breath. as dumb as that may sound, it should help the nerves.

they when you go up to him and he says hello, just say hey back, in a causual way, and be like "how are you" if you smile at him, and make him notice that your intrigued in his hello's he will feel confident in himself to keep talking to you, which aslo helps you.

Flirting by accident isn't a bad thing, it can help him realize that you may be into him. But try not to be to forward because he may feel over whelmed.

Also, if you see hom out side of church, or in the room sitting down, smile at him, or stare at him till he looks at you, then turn away. It will make him question you, just like you questioning him.

Try to act calm and cool, and that will capture his attension and bring you to his mind more often.

hope i helpedd
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Answer 2

As hard as it is, just be yourself. By asking this, you obviously are lacking self confidence. You get nervous because you like him and you're scared he might not like you for who you are. If he always makes a point to say hello and have a conversation, I don't see what you're worried about. Just act normal and pretend its any other guy.

If you end up flirting by accident, so be it! That's your personality and you can't change it easily. Just don't give the wrong hints and have fun!

If it doesn't work out, who cares! There's plenty of other guys out there and I'm sure one of them will make you feel comfortable enough to just accept and let you be yourself.

Goodluck :)

Answer 3

well when u talk jus try and be a bit fromal... asking about normal stuff dont get too casual... later on probably... ones u get more close to him... then there wont be a problm even if u flirt with him. dont get too nervous....when he tells u hello... try and start a conversation....wht are u waiting for but trust me dont go and tell him that u like him... jus wait until u get more signs .. he might jus come and tell u about what he feels... so jus wait... try and put up some friendship between u guys... ALL THE BEST!!!

Answer 4

Look at him as just friends at first. See if you like him as a friend. You have to be friends first anyway. It is easier to talk to a friend. If things develop between you, then you will both know later down the road.

I have known this guy as friends for almost two years, we just started dating in November. It is much better getting to know someone as friends and see if you would want to get to know them any further than friends.

Enjoy getting to know him.

Answer 5

Be yourself. This is normal for all girls. Just have a regular conversation with him. If you like him, then you are slowly getting to know each other as friends. It may lead to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

I met a boy at a church dance, and we got to know each other as friends for 3 months. He finally asked me out, and we got to know each other for 3 more months.

Answer 6

the next time you see him and he says hello...introduce yourself and ask him his name
r e l a x ......he likes you & you like him....
that's all that matters.....
ask him what he is doing after church....maybe the two of you can have breakfast ..brunch....or just coffe/tea/hot chocolate..
if you feel you are going to get nervous..say a little prayer..

Answer 7

i think u should, when u are having one of ur conversations to try and seem very iterested and try to flirt but not tooooooooo much kk and don't make it look like ur trying to look good just for him but more like u have intrest but not too much

Answer 8

RUN AROUND NAKED AND GET HIS ATTENTION.